Falkor
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Hi,
So I really want to move out. My parents take control over a lot of things.
I don't have my own credit card, my dad has mine. I have to ask him for money. I can't decide my own bed time, and my parents think i'm not responsible cuz i'm afraid of going to school. I'm pissed off, I hate this way of living.
I really want to move out. I feel sad because the way my parents say things to me, like ''You do nothing all day long'' , ''you can't handle school'' ''you are not mature yet, because you're not grown up'' . i know a lot of things and i can think very mature, but they don't see it.
I'm a good 18 year old girl, I never say rude stuff to my parents, I help them with house keeping, I told them so many times I can't wait when school starts after staying 3 years of home in isolation. But do I need to be punnished because i've been afraid so long? I can't help it.
oh and i always save money every month to save a little money left, so i never give away money too much!
I terribly need to move out, because this is no good, I really need to have my own space, make my own decisions and be free of this.
I love my parents, but i know this is an issue for me. so the option is : moving out.
I'm filling papers next week to get this thing done, and i will be living with house mates.
do you guys have any tips, how this all goes, and what i should buy ? and did someone here ever lived with housemates, how did it go ??
i have counselors in the house btw.. but they are not strict, their in the office all day long, only when we need them we can ask them.
my old friend lives there, so i know how this is to be living there.
Btw, i don't have to cook for myself, the coaching does, we eat together. (that's a step for me too...)
and i have a payment, so i can pay this all, and i have money left too
and i seriously hope i can decide about my credit card, and i hope my parents will give me the freedom i need. but i sure go visit them time to time.
i just had a discussion with my dad, he said ''when you still live here, i'm your boss'' that made me so frustrated i said ''i will be not living here too long anymore'' so that's spoken now.
And I think my parents sure understand my SA very much, cuz they want the best for me, a better social life, and they understand how hard it is.
But sometimes they don't understand certain moments, when I really need them. for example when i feel sad, they dont want me to be sad, because they have seen enough of that, but can i help it?!
well... i think this is enough for the topic.... pff damn hard to post
So I really want to move out. My parents take control over a lot of things.
I don't have my own credit card, my dad has mine. I have to ask him for money. I can't decide my own bed time, and my parents think i'm not responsible cuz i'm afraid of going to school. I'm pissed off, I hate this way of living.
I really want to move out. I feel sad because the way my parents say things to me, like ''You do nothing all day long'' , ''you can't handle school'' ''you are not mature yet, because you're not grown up'' . i know a lot of things and i can think very mature, but they don't see it.
I'm a good 18 year old girl, I never say rude stuff to my parents, I help them with house keeping, I told them so many times I can't wait when school starts after staying 3 years of home in isolation. But do I need to be punnished because i've been afraid so long? I can't help it.
oh and i always save money every month to save a little money left, so i never give away money too much!
I terribly need to move out, because this is no good, I really need to have my own space, make my own decisions and be free of this.
I love my parents, but i know this is an issue for me. so the option is : moving out.
I'm filling papers next week to get this thing done, and i will be living with house mates.
do you guys have any tips, how this all goes, and what i should buy ? and did someone here ever lived with housemates, how did it go ??
i have counselors in the house btw.. but they are not strict, their in the office all day long, only when we need them we can ask them.
my old friend lives there, so i know how this is to be living there.
Btw, i don't have to cook for myself, the coaching does, we eat together. (that's a step for me too...)
and i have a payment, so i can pay this all, and i have money left too
and i seriously hope i can decide about my credit card, and i hope my parents will give me the freedom i need. but i sure go visit them time to time.
i just had a discussion with my dad, he said ''when you still live here, i'm your boss'' that made me so frustrated i said ''i will be not living here too long anymore'' so that's spoken now.
And I think my parents sure understand my SA very much, cuz they want the best for me, a better social life, and they understand how hard it is.
But sometimes they don't understand certain moments, when I really need them. for example when i feel sad, they dont want me to be sad, because they have seen enough of that, but can i help it?!
well... i think this is enough for the topic.... pff damn hard to post
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