dannyboy65
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Well I knew this girl for a little over a month now. When we first started hanging out we would kiss and stuff. But we stopped that 2 weeks ago. She always said right from the start that she is a caring person and cares for more people then she does herself.
I am a very caring person and I don't think she really is. When I have an issue or something and talk to her she always brings it back to herself, when she has an issue I listen to her rant for hours. But when it's something about me it doesn't even matter. Then when I am with her she is on her phone the whole time and never looks at me or speaks to me.
When we do talk she twists my words around and then gets angry and makes me look like a bad guy. For instance, on Thursday she said she knew and understood autism cause she has a close friend who has it. Me having autism I know a lot about the subject as I see different kinds every single day. I told her that she only understood his autism, not mine, not some of my friends. She then said well autism is a disability aren't all disabilities the same. I told her no one with autism is the same, if you know one person with autism you know one person with autism. She then started getting pissed off at me because apparently I was saying I knew all about her friend when I never even met the guy. I told her I didn't know a thing about him and she got pissed off even more.
So I told her to stop twisting my words around and getting mad at me. She got pissed and went on that if she is such a horrible person why do I talk to her. I told her cause I care and she pretty much just got more pissed and told me to go away so I did.
That though was just an example of how she likes to twist my words around. I'm tired of her bull shit to be honest. I want to have an actual friendship where it's not one sided like how she is making it. Only thing is she has a giant social life and I know if I kick her out of my life she would go around spreading that I'm a bad guy or some shit like that cause she causes drama about everything. She is toxic and I need her out of my life. Any tips?
I am a very caring person and I don't think she really is. When I have an issue or something and talk to her she always brings it back to herself, when she has an issue I listen to her rant for hours. But when it's something about me it doesn't even matter. Then when I am with her she is on her phone the whole time and never looks at me or speaks to me.
When we do talk she twists my words around and then gets angry and makes me look like a bad guy. For instance, on Thursday she said she knew and understood autism cause she has a close friend who has it. Me having autism I know a lot about the subject as I see different kinds every single day. I told her that she only understood his autism, not mine, not some of my friends. She then said well autism is a disability aren't all disabilities the same. I told her no one with autism is the same, if you know one person with autism you know one person with autism. She then started getting pissed off at me because apparently I was saying I knew all about her friend when I never even met the guy. I told her I didn't know a thing about him and she got pissed off even more.
So I told her to stop twisting my words around and getting mad at me. She got pissed and went on that if she is such a horrible person why do I talk to her. I told her cause I care and she pretty much just got more pissed and told me to go away so I did.
That though was just an example of how she likes to twist my words around. I'm tired of her bull shit to be honest. I want to have an actual friendship where it's not one sided like how she is making it. Only thing is she has a giant social life and I know if I kick her out of my life she would go around spreading that I'm a bad guy or some shit like that cause she causes drama about everything. She is toxic and I need her out of my life. Any tips?