I have become obsessed with a woman- help!

[Hero]

I have become attached to someone emotionally, and I don't know what to do!

I met up with this nice lady, I opened up to her, she opened up to me. It was fantastic. She had her own issues as well, and out of the other women I have met in the past, this is the closest one that understood me. We met up, chilled out, became intimate. I can be myself around her, and when I'm with her I feel like I am in warm, relaxed bubble. I can't describe how happy I am.

She was soon on my mind all the time. Even appearing in dreams. I rang her up and confessed how I felt about her. She doesn't want a relationship, but she likes me and still wanted to meet up for random hook-ups.

We met up again and she hasn't spoken to me since. I am constantly checking her facebook. My stomach feels like it's in a twist, i have little appetite and I have a lump in my throat.

This is too much and I don't know what to do :/ I wish I could be one of those dick guys who didn't have a heart...

 

[truffleshuffle]

Ouch. I think you may have come on to strong and scard her. Do you still talk? or has she completly just cut all communications off?

 

[laure15]

She was soon on my mind all the time. Even appearing in dreams. I rang her up and confessed how I felt about her. She doesn't want a relationship, but she likes me and still wanted to meet up for random hook-ups.

Is she even serious about you? If she isn't, maybe it's time to move on and find someone else. I wouldn't want to be emotionally invested in a relationship with someone who is not serious about me.