i dont like groups

[LazyHermitCrab]

Groups are usually awkward for me -.- You know that feeling like in class or meeting someones friends or friend. Sometimes there's an energy clash. I guess im judging in a way but its like i can be invisible but i know no one can be that in the own world not to notice. Or can they? Just thinking about this... I met my friends friend and he acted like i was a monster or something. I said hey and he didn't even reply. I never even met him before... >.> I wasn't trying to invade his space. Just said hello... didn't think it was a big deal. Also we hung out for three hours and my friend was in the middle of us walking in the mall. She went to the restroom and he wouldn't even look at me when we were sitting on the same couch. Very uncomfortable. When we went shopping he would talk to random people outgoing like so he wasn't shy. Ehh

 

[bitingthepea]

Hey i get what you mean. I hate groups too they scare me i just dont no what to say - but when im observing someone communicate in a group it looks easy ? i dont get it at all - just thankful for a website like this

 

[popolala]

well that was rude to not reply, even if they can sense you have SA.. i know im not comfortable around people who dont treat me like they wanted to get to know me, rather they talk to me and judging me same time. I can feel that, and i tend to close myself and so they only will know the SA me, while another person who dont act that way, i will feel more comfortable around. I dont like group much unless everyone is a friend of mine and i gotten to knw each one individually. Otherwise, im a 121 person.

 

[redmatter]

When I walk into a room groups huddle together, not for warmth but out of fear. Herd mentality never let me in, I never knew how. Maybe I did at one point, but lost interest when I knew I couldn't win anywhere I went..... and they wonder what's wrong with me.

At the end of the day, at least I know I can move faster on my own - or at least, have the choice to. And yea, they treat people like Frankenstein long enough best be prepared for some freakish behavior.

 

[Kiwong]

The words "let's break into groups" strike the fear of hell into me. Usually there is butchers paper and felt tip pens involved. I'm hapy here sitting on my own, I don;t want to break into groups.

 

[Sprunk]

I am ok 1 on1.At work i am confident speaking to pretty much anyone though as soon as a third person joins in the conversation i withdraw and go into my shell

 

[Richey]

its incredible how witty confident people become in groups around each other. i've known quite a few who switch to a far more confident personality around other more interesting people, its as if they're on the same wavelength and know all the inside jokes and metaphors, references etc. can be difficult when you don't have a clue what's being talked about.

 

[redmatter]

its incredible how witty confident people become in groups around each other.

I think confidence can be misleading, half the time I bored half to death listening to most "confident" people speak.