tooshytosay
Well-known member
I donno. I just can't seem to have a conversation.
Of course I can 'communicate', in the sense that I can pass information to other people. But that's all I can do. I just feel like an "information-gurgitating" machine. The only sort of 'conversation' you can have with me is where you ask me factual information, and I answer, as if it were an exam question. More like an interrogation, really.
Hence none of the 'conversations' I have never, ever, resemble 'ordinary' conversations- with that seamless flow and social exchange.
It's very, very hard for me to think of anything to say unless they've asked me a direct question. And even in answering direct questions I find myself being as minimalistic as possible, ending up being 'very quiet'.
I don't 'think' I have autism / aspergers or anything, I've read up on them and I don't meet a lot of the other symptoms. Also, I can 'theoretically' understand people's emotions, etc.
It's just that when I am put on the spot, I can't think of anything to say!!!
(with anyone, including family & friends as well as strangers... my family & friends have always known me as the 'quiet one' so they just think it's ok)
Of course I can 'communicate', in the sense that I can pass information to other people. But that's all I can do. I just feel like an "information-gurgitating" machine. The only sort of 'conversation' you can have with me is where you ask me factual information, and I answer, as if it were an exam question. More like an interrogation, really.
Hence none of the 'conversations' I have never, ever, resemble 'ordinary' conversations- with that seamless flow and social exchange.
It's very, very hard for me to think of anything to say unless they've asked me a direct question. And even in answering direct questions I find myself being as minimalistic as possible, ending up being 'very quiet'.
I don't 'think' I have autism / aspergers or anything, I've read up on them and I don't meet a lot of the other symptoms. Also, I can 'theoretically' understand people's emotions, etc.
It's just that when I am put on the spot, I can't think of anything to say!!!
(with anyone, including family & friends as well as strangers... my family & friends have always known me as the 'quiet one' so they just think it's ok)