to start this off i have to say i have good social skills so im able to talk to people just fine but the problem begins when i start to hang out with people more often..i find that i can hang just fine when it comes to talking about the news or current topics but when it comes to social lives and life experiences, im dead in the water..i have a few hobbies but they arent really interesting enough to talk about but i have very little if any social life..i never go on vacation or travel or really do much of anything so this leaves me feeling like an outsider..i have no kids either and 98% of people my age do so...i dont know, i feel this is a problem for me when it comes to friendships and relationships..if i see someone more than once a week i really have nothing much to say really..sure, i can keep asking them questions about their life and family but that gets old very fast ...so im not sure what to do about this?it just leads to further isolation..
even at work i find myself just sinking sometimes because i dont have much to offer in terms of being social..
does anyone know aht im talking about?in the same position?
even at work i find myself just sinking sometimes because i dont have much to offer in terms of being social..
does anyone know aht im talking about?in the same position?