tooshytosay
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Ok well I'm a 21 year old guy and I have well, so far, never had a girlfriend. Also I lead a pretty lonely life.
Perhaps because of this, I just get "infatuated" by any girl I meet. This especially applies to any girl I end up working with at work. Like, you know, unless she is very... mean / rude to me, I will "fall for" pretty much any girl - without discrimination.
I don't know, it's like a girl talking to me (even for purely work purposes) is enough to really muddle my brain up. My brain goes like "wow, this girl's actually talking to a... monster / weirdo like me! I can't believe it! Thank you thank you thank you! *falls in love helplessly*" Of course it's infatuation, not really "love"; but I simply can't seem to help myself.
I guess it's what one's desperate brain does to you when you long for a relationship that you've never had. You long for meaningful human contact so much that you try to "jump on" to anything and everything.
It really doesn't help that I grew up "deprived" of female contact. I have no sisters, and never really came into contact with girls as I grew up. So yeah, females continue to remain on the pedestal for me. I just can't relate "normally" with them without my brain going "haywire" with these crazy thoughts.
Perhaps because of this, I just get "infatuated" by any girl I meet. This especially applies to any girl I end up working with at work. Like, you know, unless she is very... mean / rude to me, I will "fall for" pretty much any girl - without discrimination.
I don't know, it's like a girl talking to me (even for purely work purposes) is enough to really muddle my brain up. My brain goes like "wow, this girl's actually talking to a... monster / weirdo like me! I can't believe it! Thank you thank you thank you! *falls in love helplessly*" Of course it's infatuation, not really "love"; but I simply can't seem to help myself.
I guess it's what one's desperate brain does to you when you long for a relationship that you've never had. You long for meaningful human contact so much that you try to "jump on" to anything and everything.
It really doesn't help that I grew up "deprived" of female contact. I have no sisters, and never really came into contact with girls as I grew up. So yeah, females continue to remain on the pedestal for me. I just can't relate "normally" with them without my brain going "haywire" with these crazy thoughts.
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