I was wondering something. To the people that have boyfriends/girlfriends with SA. How does it compare to previous relationship that you have had with people without SA.
I am assuming that it might be more work in the beginning to get over that trust barrier?
I am just curious...
I was 17 when I met mine. I went to a party one time she was there. Afterward a few days later she let her mate know that she liked me who was also my mate. I built up the courage to give her a ring it was nerve racking but I did it and did pretty well. I asked her if she wanted to come down to mine she came down it went well. At the end of the night I asked her if she wanted to get together she said yes. We fell madly in love and got through some bad times together people tried to split us up but we were unbreakable. It was me and her for four years straight we felt we didn't need anybody else. Then she started university and turned into a major bitch our relationship turned into a love / hate relationship. I told her about my SA but she didn't really give a shit. She left my ass a couple of months ago then got with someone else a week later. I still loved her and went through hell with it. Now it finally feels like I'm getting over her and I feel able to move on. I would build up the courage and do it all again and planning to do it soon. What I've learned is don't devote your life to a girl because if they leave your ass then you're screwed.
I was 17 when I met mine. I went to a party one time she was there. Afterward a few days later she let her mate know that she liked me who was also my mate...
Hey man, sorry to hear it. This seems to me to be some kind of pattern.
I have a few guy friends who were dumped when the girlfriend started
studying or progressed in her carrier.
We met in high school in the guidance office when I was in 11th grade and he was in 9th grade. I was in there doing my schoolwork (because I couldn't handle going to classes because of my SA) and he was in there during lunch for whatever reason. Somehow we became instant best friends. We got married while he was still in high school (he was 19, I was 21); we've been married 5 years.