twiggle
Well-known member
Having read through this forum and around on the internet I think I've finally realised that this 'Avoidant Personality Disorder' is pretty much me, and I'm pleased to see I'm not the only one who is like this. Not the only one who would stay behind in the school toilets for 15 minutes so that I wouldn't have to see certain people who walk the same way out of the building as I would, not the only one who might block all their MSN contacts because I don't want to have a conversation full of harmless but confusing silences and awkwardnesses, not the only one who would put off getting in contact with somebody I really care about because I'm scared of a lack of response....
I really need to learn how to get over this. The first two examples are old but deep down I know I'm still like it.
Just wish I knew how to let people know the following:
- I still care about you and I always will but I can't contact you because I'm scared I'll mess up or say something that offends you then I'll worry about that for ages and what we have will become less than what we have now.
I need to start writing to people I have no other way of contacting, to show them I still care, but I'm anxious about doing so and keep making excuses not to.
How to do this? I'm so desperate for advice
I really need to learn how to get over this. The first two examples are old but deep down I know I'm still like it.
Just wish I knew how to let people know the following:
- I still care about you and I always will but I can't contact you because I'm scared I'll mess up or say something that offends you then I'll worry about that for ages and what we have will become less than what we have now.
I need to start writing to people I have no other way of contacting, to show them I still care, but I'm anxious about doing so and keep making excuses not to.
How to do this? I'm so desperate for advice