How can I deal with a crazy mom ?

[Clown]

I almost wanted to hit my mom, she always say hurtfull things when she is mad an hour ago we got in in a verbal fight for some stupid reason which is her fault and then se she go's saying what for looser that I am that Im for little while still home because no school or work ''gad & sa'' and makes fun of it to hurt me, and throws some extra things on it stupid , crazy, can't do nothing , looser etc. something snaps in me and I get so mad that I don't even care if she is my mom she needs a **** punch in the face ( would never do that). she has always been crazy even before all this .problems I got, she would yell all the time and hit me when I was little ( now she only yells and not hitting me anymore)

How can I deal with my crazy mom because she is making me crazy also.. she gives me suicide thoughts

 

[Clown]

no response ?

 

[Dark_Angel]

first of all im sorry to hear things like that , i dont know very good ur situation but from what i ve heard that u said, well i think maybe u could try to do some studing or course or if u dont feel to maybe try to find some work , i know its not easy but it will be veryusefull for u first because ur mum wont have reasons to say what she said second because maybe can help with ur SA , btw the ur mum is always ur mum who gaves u the life and idk if is possible but i would have a very deep talking with her if i were in u but when its calm btw try to improve ur situation plan some aims in ur life and try to bit by bit get better maybe if u start to work u will be possible to have ur own house but if u dont start to even try its hard

 

[Clown]

I work now and then still waiting to start school, but how can I handle this bitch she enjoys it to say it...what is that for mother ? enjoying telling your son is a looser ...

 

[Solitudes_Grace]

I am so sorry you have to deal with something like this. Absorb yourself in music or your schoolwork or something. Try to distance yourself. At least you are getting out of the house when you are working. Go to a library or a park; go anywhere where you don't have to spend time with her. I don't know if you are still a teenager; but, before long, you can get out of that house and away from the negativity for good. The future is bright. The more independent you become, the more free you will become. You won't have to deal with this negativity forever. I know it is hard. I truly hope it gets better for you.

 

[to·ma·to]

Can you try to manage her? Or, is there somewhere you could obtain information that can assist family members of people like your mother?

 

[spaceboy135]

perhaps your mum is the reason you have s.a in the first place she sounds very verbally abusive...I know my father was..

The reason you snapped at her when she started to call you those names is because you hold them as your beliefs so therefor you have an "emotional reaction" to them...

 

[spaceboy135]

how old are you...could you move away from her?

 

[Kat]

It’s unfortunate you have to deal with it. Maybe you could suggest you both do some therapy to learn to deal with your emotions better. I would definitely get as much independence as possible.