How bad was ur first hart break?

lonely_drummer

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we dated 4 years and the pain lasted 2 1/2 years, it was pretty damn hard thats for sure. I didn't spend that time trying to deal and heal, I was just trying to forget with the help of my trusting partners in crime, BEER and HASH!!! Now when I think of her, Im pretty neutral, pretty blah, realized it was in the past and to just keep moving on, well thats all you can do.
 

dyingtolive

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pretty bad i was 14... and it catapulted my whole teenage angst and felt alot of hate towards my self and my appearance and alot of other things. lots of anger and self pity

my heart was never broken again though in relationships that came after
 
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1BlackSheep

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we dated 4 years and the pain lasted 2 1/2 years, it was pretty damn hard thats for sure. I didn't spend that time trying to deal and heal, I was just trying to forget with the help of my trusting partners in crime, BEER and HASH!!! Now when I think of her, Im pretty neutral, pretty blah, realized it was in the past and to just keep moving on, well thats all you can do.
Pretty much same for me, sans the BEER and HASH!!! ::p: He was my "first", so will always hold a special place in my heart.
 

Srijita52

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In my 20's...he was my first boyfriend, i fell in love, took me many years to get over him and I have never loved that way again. Guess i was very innocent if I had met him now, I would probably have dumped him. He was a bit of a jerk and made me feel like I wasn't good enough for him.

6 years ago - An american woman broke my heart. Worst emotional pain ever. Still getting over it.
I'm really sorry you both had to go through that.
 

Canis lupus

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Bad and the worst thing is we've never had a relationship except for our friendship. I loved her very much and still do a little but was too shy to do anything about it. When she told me she had a friend and bought a house together my world came crashing down. This happened about a year and a half ago and I'm still not completely over it. It's already much better. I've been very depressed because of it. I thought she was my only chance for happiness and that I missed it, dooming myself to a lonely, miserable life. She's the only girl I've ever got along with and haven't met any other in years untill recently. Now I'm slowly starting to see that there might be still hope although I can't really believe it yet.
 

dyingtolive

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im sorry Canis. maybe from this comes some of the anger...

I was similarly angry about particular things/events about a year or so ago and when u just have to 'live with' a feeling or something that happened, i guess it causes that in the background of daily living... always a sorta footprint in your memory of that bad thing that happened..

i guess only time heals hopefully ur anger will also lessen and eventually disappear in due time ..
 
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