Hi.a complete newbie..Is there any1 here worse off than me?:(

[C-Bebell44]

Hello all.

This is my very first post..and was wondering if there is any1 in a worse situ.than me?

my confidence is probably below zero..I have a fear of social events/parties/gatherings etc..and will always look for an excuse to get out of it..if sum1 mentions the word party..i freeze!.and very rarley look forward to these kinda things..therefore makin it very difficult to make new friends?..i really dont have that many locally I can go out for a drink with as i never know what to say to them, have the feelin im soo boring etc..and never know how to have a laugh etc..my brain just doesnt work like that..
.plus always worried im guna say the wrong thing..i do have sum form of dyslexia..but not sure exactly at what level..
any1 in a similar boat to me here?
cheers all
Cammie:

 

[coyote]

Hi, and welcome to the forum!

 

[SonicMan]

Hi C-Bebell44 and welcome. I think many people here will be able to relate to that. I get very anxious about partys and social events but at the same time I kind of want to do these things which keeps me trying.

 

[Phoenixx]

Welcome to SPW, Cammie

 

[C-Bebell44]

aahh..many thanks for your welcome msgs..i think ive been told b4 that if u keep at it..it kinda gets easier? ..im not at that stage yet..im still tryin to actually say..yeah..ok.ill go?..i cant even say that....when i get a few mins..ill have a read of a few threads etc..cheers peeps!.

 

[Predacon]

Hi welcome to the site.

 

[Yes We Can]

Hey C-bebell44, welcome aboard, glad to have you join us, and yeah, I think most, if not all of us can relate to what you're going through. Hang in there.

 

[Ignace]

Welcome, and yes, I do. At least you go out for a drink now and then. I'm 100 % isolated. (except school)

 

[9407]

Hello all.

This is my very first post..and was wondering if there is any1 in a worse situ.than me?

my confidence is probably below zero..I have a fear of social events/parties/gatherings etc..and will always look for an excuse to get out of it..if sum1 mentions the word party..i freeze!.and very rarley look forward to these kinda things..therefore makin it very difficult to make new friends?..i really dont have that many locally I can go out for a drink with as i never know what to say to them, have the feelin im soo boring etc..and never know how to have a laugh etc..my brain just doesnt work like that..
.plus always worried im guna say the wrong thing..i do have sum form of dyslexia..but not sure exactly at what level..
any1 in a similar boat to me here?
cheers all
Cammie:

Look at it this way, not only do you have friends, but you have friends that are willing to invite you to social events. You're better off than a lot of people. (like me)