NatRad
Well-known member
I have to get out of this abusive relationship, theirs no love for years, i know the last time we had sex was when she was pregnant with my 19 month old daughter. their is no affection only hate for a long time,
every time i do something i just get critisised and run down, although she will say thats all i do to her, as i dont support her mental illness.
she has obsessive compulsive disorder, with hording and cluttering, which means she will get what ever she can and scatter it everywhere in clutter, garbage, etc what ever she can get,
this is come about since she got pregnant, and its unstopable,
i was on hollidays for a few weeks, so i cleaned out a tin shed i use to store things in, which had atleast two dozen unopened moving boxes, i went through each of these, and into the trailer and took them to the dump, some boxes were just filled with old make up, new avon stuff still in packets, one box was entirly wooden shapes. with other htings like her highschool art books, which was mostly just blank paper, she went totally off her head at me over doing this, i told her i would throw them out if she didnt go through them, which she ignored me, so after 3 years, i finally did it.
in retaliation she has trashed the entire house from top to bottom, food, bottles, books, what ever she has is scatered from one end of the house to the other, dishes thrown everywhere with food going rancid. shes managed to do this with in 3 days of me going back to my 12 hour shift work.
i really have to get out, shes put us into so much debt by her constant buying, maxing credit cards out, spending every cent we have, shes never worked in the 10 years we have been together, only me,
what would happen, if i left, i dont want to loose my daughter upmost, i dont think shes safe even here now, neverloan what would happen if she was living alone with the slob. would she get custody of my daughter, would she get all our property,the house, the car all the stuff we own. i fear i will end up with nothing out of it.
HELP
every time i do something i just get critisised and run down, although she will say thats all i do to her, as i dont support her mental illness.
she has obsessive compulsive disorder, with hording and cluttering, which means she will get what ever she can and scatter it everywhere in clutter, garbage, etc what ever she can get,
this is come about since she got pregnant, and its unstopable,
i was on hollidays for a few weeks, so i cleaned out a tin shed i use to store things in, which had atleast two dozen unopened moving boxes, i went through each of these, and into the trailer and took them to the dump, some boxes were just filled with old make up, new avon stuff still in packets, one box was entirly wooden shapes. with other htings like her highschool art books, which was mostly just blank paper, she went totally off her head at me over doing this, i told her i would throw them out if she didnt go through them, which she ignored me, so after 3 years, i finally did it.
in retaliation she has trashed the entire house from top to bottom, food, bottles, books, what ever she has is scatered from one end of the house to the other, dishes thrown everywhere with food going rancid. shes managed to do this with in 3 days of me going back to my 12 hour shift work.
i really have to get out, shes put us into so much debt by her constant buying, maxing credit cards out, spending every cent we have, shes never worked in the 10 years we have been together, only me,
what would happen, if i left, i dont want to loose my daughter upmost, i dont think shes safe even here now, neverloan what would happen if she was living alone with the slob. would she get custody of my daughter, would she get all our property,the house, the car all the stuff we own. i fear i will end up with nothing out of it.
HELP
