Help - going on dinner date!!!

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missjesss

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ok so I have made it to the second date with this guy, the first date we went out for a couple of drinks and I got thru it but now he wants to take me out dinner and im rlly scared as I rlly liked this guy dam you S.A !!! even being back on my lexapro my confidence has just gone since having to deal with this for 2 years :-(
 
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missjesss

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I was hoping for some support or advice on when im talking to him ;-( last time we were out I swear I got a hot flush and went red but thankfully we were drinking I cud blame it on the alcohol
 
Ignace

Ignace

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We need time to answer. :) I'm gonna say the most heard combination of words ever used:
Just be yourself, you'll be fine. :)
 
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UnOccupied

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If he didn't like you for who you were, he wouldn't have asked you out on a second date. By this, i mean there is no need to worry so much about every word you say, because this guy obviously likes you for who you are.

Say you blush a little, shake a little, or maybe even sweat a little, do you really think this guy will get up, start yelling at you, and walk out...the answers no. He obviously won't. And, even if he did do something crazy like that, that just shows he has something wrong with him, and it wasn't meant to be.

I am sure you do much better on dates than your anxiety makes you believe.

Good luck! :)
 
Looking_in105

Looking_in105

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Yep, just be yourself and try not to think the worst...i know, hard right?

Try to focus on enjoying yourself, rather than thinking about all the bad stuff that might happen...:)
 
DanFC

DanFC

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missjesss said:
thank guys :) im feeling a little better now will post back and let yous know how it all goes xxx
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Piggybacking on UnOccupied, there's no sane straight man who would not like a girl just because she blushes or something to that extent.
 
irene holly

irene holly

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How did your dinner date go???? I'm supposed to going to lunch with a girl from work tomorrow, without alcohol .. :/ Always use alcohol as my crutch with new people, and I'm so nervous. I kind of don't even want to go now. Ughhhh.
 
abbu

abbu

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I've heard guys find blushing "cute". He must like you if he's asked you for a second date, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. Good luck!
 
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