hello from heart of europe

M

miso

Member
first sorry for my probably bad english.

My social phobia starts when my brother had car accident, after that i spend too much(many?) time in hospital or home, because he need all/day care, after two years (present) i am totally exhausted. Before car accident i have girlfriend, friends and normal life, now is this all past. Sometimes i go out to the pub, with friends but i am not able to enjoy it, i still must think about my brother - he is alive, but paralyzed. Now i have really "pretty" depression.

So i mean that i havent real social phobia, but my normal life is probably over, i study medicine and i am not be able to concentrate for school or .... for anything, i mean.

I read some of yours posts - its very interesting. For me maybe you are ideal friends now. I will be very gladly to meet you. :)

nice day people
 
Pink_Paula

Pink_Paula

Well-known member
Hi, welcome to the site. I'm so sorry to hear about your brother, are you his only carer or are there others that look after him?
 
lunarla

lunarla

Well-known member
You're understandably exhausted! Your brother is really lucky to have someone like you to be there for him. Hopefully you can transition to being comfortably social again if that's what you desire to do.

A couple years ago a friend of mine got into a car accident and was paralyzed as well. I felt kind of helpless as there didn't seem to be much I could do for her. It's always heartbreaking to think back to when she could still walk. The only thing that makes it bearable is that she's a very positive person.

Good luck to you, and all the best to your brother! Also, welcome :)
 
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