have you ever asked someone out? or told them u liked them?

[Darker Than Black]

Yes..and I had 3 rejections all in grade 10, I think its cuz we didn't know each other enough, I've only known each of them about 1 month or less or not at all,


omg, I'm a noob


Now, i don't even have the guts to say hi to a girl anymore,

I suck, don't I?

 

[Avery]

I've never asked a girl out, or even come within a light year of being willing to do so. I've simply never known a girl well enough. Hell, I don't even have guy friends anymore, and that despite being surrounded by peers on a daily basis.

I doubt it'll ever happen for me -- I'm working on accepting this and moving on to other things.

Now, i don't even have the guts to say hi to a girl anymore,

I suck, don't I?

Hey, you're braver than I am. At least you've been willing to face rejection.

And I can't recall ever offering an unsolicited 'hi' to a girl (unless she was a bank teller or something).

 

[Flimsyman]

Once I asked a girl out. At first I only thought about what she was going to say, yes or no, but when she finally said yes all my problems really started. I felt terribly nervous six days in advance. It seemed like I was about to be hanged. It is true,nature is wise, and if I was afraid it was not for no reason, it was like a warning my brain gave me cause the date was a ****ing disaster, a real disgrace. I swear I will never do it again! When I finally got rid of the girl I wanted to die. I was ashamed of myself for being so stupid, the main problem being that I didn´t know what to say to the girl from minute one, and so she ended up thinking I was retarded or something. When I was with the girl I kept repeating myself "don´t know what to say", "don´t know what to say", over and over again, and this thought kept me in fact from saying anything because the line was busy, so to say.

 

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[Rheves]

I have asked a couple of females out. 1 ended up saying yes!? But i was un able to make physical contact, so that fell apart. I asked another one out, but that fell apart. T_T. I dont really care though. For every 1 u ask out, there are like 10 more u can talk to. Sorry, im a lil intoxicated.

 

[Cloudtheclow]

Never asked anyone out. Partly since I have never known a girl well enough, which is a problem of my own creation, and partly because I don't have the guts to.

 

[PennyLane]

Im a girl and it seems to me guys don't really ask girls out in the same way anymore, even if you meet them on a one off...like a night out..you take their number and then text them or if your brave...call!

Everyone I've gone out with I got to know first, we became flirty friends and then it developed from there...i recommend this, as then there is no scary 'first date' thing going on!

I find first dates easier than the following ones though...because generally you dont know much about each other so there are loads of areas to ask about...whereas after that im stumped and thats when I worry they're left with boring little me!!

 

[klytus]

No girl is worth the effort, so no, I haven't. (Alternative explanation: I have never known a girl well enough to do that. During the past seven years I haven't even had a conversation with a girl beyond the initial greeting.) This isn't going to change and I have accepted it.

 

[Mikefly]

Yes ive asked girls out occasionally it wasn't always pretty but it worked sometimes and didn't other times .... that's all i got , i did embarrass myself plenty but went out with a few girls also. I don't really try to bs around i get right to the point and get any words out i can during the first interaction , feel like a clown sometimes but other times i say f-it.

 

[this_portrait]

I told a guy I liked him once, and it will probably be the last time I ever do. I had such a bad experience that I can't bear to ever face another guy again and tell him I like him.

 

[JCS008]

Yes, I've asked a girl out. Several times. Have gotten rejected a few times and have been successful a few times. I mean that's just the way life and the world works. As tough it is to get rejected, I try not to hold anything against the women who reject me. I mean dating/being in a relationship with someone is such a personal thing, so they shouldn't be under any obligation to date me. And I should't resent them for it either. Sometimes you can't sontrol who you're attracted to. I've rejected some women also, and some have been pissed at me over it. Which is expected since I was just being honest. The important thing is that each person or incident should be kept somewhat independent from one another. Just because one girl rejects you, doesn't mean every girl will reject you. But sometimes if things just aren't working, you have to look at your situation and change things. It'd be great if women accepted you for who you are, but that's not reality. Sometimes you need to make adjustments to better your own situation. How you approach things, your mentality, and what not.

 

[freestylemonster]

I asked a girl to be my long-distance girlfriend over msn when I was like 15 and it was awesome lasted like 7 months, and now, 4 years later, we've been flirting over text messages

I've asked out 3 girls this year but all of them said no but I don't even mind, they were all really nice about it and one of them has become a good friend of mine

 

[doesit]

!knew few girls who would *uck with me around and when asked out the answer would be no,never felt bad about it and it didnt hurt but it was long time ago,now i dont even bother,coz best ones are always taken and meeting new girls takes to much effort :/

 

[oxygene]

I`ve never asked a girl out. There was a girl whom I had a crush on when I was in highschool, and I knew her fairly well as we always took the same classes. The worst part is I knew she was also interested in me. I could feel that when she talked to me, but my anxiety kept me away from her. After highschool, I`ve never met a girl, let alone asking one out.

 

[El.Sonador]

never asked someone out. but I got asked out before about 5 times I think , well, to be honest 3 of them did ask me out , the other two just gabbed me and kissed me... lol

strangely I told the other 3 that I only wanted to be friends, but couldn't say no to the other two who went for it without asking, first one was a summer romance lasted 2 months, it ended when the summer ended and I had to go back to my hometown. ( we live in different cities). the second one lasted 1 day only , she was new in the city, I got to be with her the whole day , and then she traveled the next day, we said goodbye and that was it, we haven't talked or saw each other ever again.

 

[klytus]

never asked someone out. but I got asked out before about 5 times I think , well, to be honest 3 of them did ask me out , the other two just gabbed me and kissed me

Impressive.

 

[NickyNacker]

when i was in the closet in middle school, i asked several girls out and they all said yes. but then i would get really uncomfortable after a few days and break up with them until finally i came out in 8th grade. i also asked a few girls out in elementary school(hahaha) and most of them said yes. but then in high school when i was out of the closet i was way too scared and my anxiety had gotten way too bad. i never dated in high school and then ended up dropping out when i started having panic attacks. so yeah, no dating for me.

 

[Moonie]

Never - I don't have the courage. If I ever have, it was only when drunk. Though, I can't recall a specific time. Usually someone will ask me out, and I will happily and drunkenly accept then become flakey for awhile until a real date cements itself.