Hard to Meet Lesbians

[liveindreams]

...when you're not the outgoing one bursting with confidence. Though it seems like everyone else, no matter what their personality, has someone fall in their lap. Nobody wants me I'm a waste of a life.

 

[DeadmanWalking]

You aren't a waste of a life. People, when looking for relationships, have to go out and present themselves as someone who wants a relationship. You don't have to be overflowing with confidence, but you do have trust yourself to be a good partner. You have to have some confidence in yourself. You can find lesbians in your area if you look around. Just look for some LGBT groups nearby or online even.

 

[lyricalliaisons]

I hope you'll stop feeling that way, but I can understand to an extent.

 

[Foxface]

...when you're not the outgoing one bursting with confidence. Though it seems like everyone else, no matter what their personality, has someone fall in their lap. Nobody wants me I'm a waste of a life.

I agree. I've been trying with girls, but I'v been fishing in the wrong pond. I should be looking for guys. I do have some interests in guys, but my problem is that I'm too straight, too straight and girls don't want me.

 

[coyote]

apparently, you should wear a Life is Good (TM) t-shirt

i think it's some sort of secret code

if anyone can tell me why this is, i would appreciate it

my store sells a lot of Life is Good (TM) merchandise

 

[Arthur_Dent]

Though it seems like everyone else, no matter what their personality, has someone fall in their lap.

Not really. This world, and specially this forum, has a considerable number of forever loners in it.

People, when looking for relationships, have to go out and present themselves as someone who wants a relationship.

Not necessarily either, I've see a couple lucky bastards find a partner online without even going to a dating site or actively looking for a relationship.

 

[EscapeArtist]

Hmmmm, how did I miss this thread? Interesting. I have the same problem. But now, I've had the problem without putting much effort to resolve it for so long, that I also have the How-to-meet -people-who-can-relate-to-my-inability-to -meet-lesbians?-problem lol. Nah kidding, that' not a problem, more like a surprise that anybody can relate (how did I miss this thread? as I said).
Never had a girlfriend, heck, never even talked to a crush. Never even been friends with a lesbian. Barely even spoken to one. It's as if I'm an alien who has not spoken to their own species, in a sense. It's lonely. And although I'd love to have a relationship, at this point, I'd just love to be friends with a lesbian simply so I feel that sense of sameness!

........long gap in thought and speach....... forgot reason for bringing this thread back up to forefront........<.< *whistles awkwardly and walks away slowly by sidestepping around a corner..*

 

[Nathália]

Hmmmm, how did I miss this thread? Interesting. I have the same problem. But now, I've had the problem without putting much effort to resolve it for so long, that I also have the How-to-meet -people-who-can-relate-to-my-inability-to -meet-lesbians?-problem lol. Nah kidding, that' not a problem, more like a surprise that anybody can relate (how did I miss this thread? as I said).
Never had a girlfriend, heck, never even talked to a crush. Never even been friends with a lesbian. Barely even spoken to one. It's as if I'm an alien who has not spoken to their own species, in a sense. It's lonely. And although I'd love to have a relationship, at this point, I'd just love to be friends with a lesbian simply so I feel that sense of sameness!

........long gap in thought and speach....... forgot reason for bringing this thread back up to forefront........<.< *whistles awkwardly and walks away slowly by sidestepping around a corner..*

I remember you said you go to school. There is no group there to join where you can meet people who have this in common with you?

 

[user deleted]

Where I live, (and a lot of other counties in the UK), there are LGBT groups run specifically by the community mental health team. People's problems vary, but you'll honestly find that everyone is really accepting because they all know what it's like to struggle, and they're there for pretty much the same reason you are. The age range is pretty varied here, it's from 22 to around 50 I'd say. I don't know what it's like in other countries but maybe you have a similar scheme?

 

[Bustn Justin]

I am bi and neither girls or guys want me. For now just concentrating to at least love myself before looking again.