mustang
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Something that has positively effected my Social Anxiety by a good margin is...
WEIGHT LIFTING
I'll tell you from a first hand experience, when your big/buff/strong, PEOPLE RESPECT YOU MORE! I got picked on a good amount in High School, random kids would try to fight me, people would try to steal my money, etc.
Well I started lifting weights, eating healthy, and gaining confidence. I went from 145 lbs. my Junior year, to 192 lbs. my Senior year.
When I hit that 192 mark, I was towering over the people that used to pick on me.
The highlight of my senior year, this guy Matt made my Freshmen year a living HELL. He'd push me down in the hallway, body check me, etc.
Well, during my Senior year I catch Matt about to open a door. He looks at me...Eyes bulging out...(I'm now about a foot taller than him, and a good 30 lbs. heavier)...He stutters out, "He-here let me get that d-door", he holds open the door for me while he's twitching and wincing at me.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
*Weight lifting and exercise in general has been scientifically proven to release endorphines, the 'feel good' hormone, great anti anxiety med! Not to mention it's just good for your health in general.
---RESPECT---
Being RESPECTED with S.A. is no easy task, by nature Introverted people are considered 'inferior, weak, runts, etc.' But when you see a 5'10, 192 lb. shy guy chances are your not going to pick on him, right?
Being respected is a 24 hour job. People show respect to me now I thought I'd never encounter...People walking the opposite direction of me on sidewalks go out of there way to let me through, people give you attention in stores/restaraunts/etc. Even little kids look up at me with bulging eyes, full of fear, and run in the opposite direction when the bump into me :lol: Call me evil, I enjoy it.
---How to---
Gaining weight is a full time job. It takes CONSISTENCY and DEDICATION.
Buy a Gym membership, can't buy a Gym membership because your S.A. is too severe? No prob! Mailorder a weight set!
Heres the system I use to much success.
Day 1- Chest and Back - Bench Press, Peck Fly, Military Press, Decline Bench Press, Dumbell Rows, and 45* Cable Rows.
Day 2- Off
Day 3- Arms & Shoulders - Seated Curls, hammer curls, shrugs, skull crushers, isolated cable rows, overhead cable pull downs, ski rows.
Day 4- Off
Day 5- Legs - Squats, Leg Press, Leg curls, Reverse Leg curls, lunges.
*This is just a standard system, you can find one you like more if you prefer it!
*It's important to take days off, your body needs a chance to heal and build muscle.
*If your JUST starting to lift weights, good news! You can actually BURN fat and GAIN muscle while just starting out. Take advantage!
---Diet---
Who doesn't love to eat?
The rule of thumb with gaining muscle is to have 1 GRAM of PROTEIN per LEAN LB. of BODY! I weigh 192 lbs., I have roughly 15 lbs. of fat, I need
177 Grams of Protein per day to gain muscle.
Next, your calorie intake. If your an Ectomorph(Skinny by genetics), then you can eat to your hearts desire to gain weight, chances are you won't gain much fat.
If your a Mesomorth(like me), you'll have to carefully monitor your fat intake with your protein to minimize your fat growth. Mesomorphs tend to gain muscle & fat easily.
Endomorphs, are chubby people by genetics. They can gain muscle extremely fast, but also gain fat rapidy...and have a difficult time losing that fat.
The standard person needs 200 calories ABOVE they're standard calorie needs to gain muscle! Search google for a Calorie Calculator to find yours!
---Supplments---
Protein powder - Optimum Nutrition and Muscle Milk make some great tasting and very effective Whey powders. Protein powders assist you get that extra protein you need!
Creatine- Ethyl Ester is my personal favorite, monohydrate is what most people use. Creatine essentially allows water to build up under your skin, ontop of your muscles. Minor assistance with strength gains.
Glutamine- Helps your body digest Amino Acids...Not scientifically proven.
Nitric Oxide- Dialates your blood vessels to give you a 'pumped' look. Cosmetic only.
Amino Acids- Helps break down proteins for better absorbtion.
Steroids- Bad.
Prohormones- VERY VERY BAD. WORSE THAN STEROIDS!!! These 'trick' your organs into producing more androtestosterone and testosterone, very dangerous, very cheap. You like manboobs? I dont!
Everything Else- Crap. You don't need it, you don't want it.
IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS ON MUSCLE BUILDING ILL BE GLAD TO ANSWER!
WEIGHT LIFTING
I'll tell you from a first hand experience, when your big/buff/strong, PEOPLE RESPECT YOU MORE! I got picked on a good amount in High School, random kids would try to fight me, people would try to steal my money, etc.
Well I started lifting weights, eating healthy, and gaining confidence. I went from 145 lbs. my Junior year, to 192 lbs. my Senior year.
When I hit that 192 mark, I was towering over the people that used to pick on me.
The highlight of my senior year, this guy Matt made my Freshmen year a living HELL. He'd push me down in the hallway, body check me, etc.
Well, during my Senior year I catch Matt about to open a door. He looks at me...Eyes bulging out...(I'm now about a foot taller than him, and a good 30 lbs. heavier)...He stutters out, "He-here let me get that d-door", he holds open the door for me while he's twitching and wincing at me.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
*Weight lifting and exercise in general has been scientifically proven to release endorphines, the 'feel good' hormone, great anti anxiety med! Not to mention it's just good for your health in general.
---RESPECT---
Being RESPECTED with S.A. is no easy task, by nature Introverted people are considered 'inferior, weak, runts, etc.' But when you see a 5'10, 192 lb. shy guy chances are your not going to pick on him, right?
Being respected is a 24 hour job. People show respect to me now I thought I'd never encounter...People walking the opposite direction of me on sidewalks go out of there way to let me through, people give you attention in stores/restaraunts/etc. Even little kids look up at me with bulging eyes, full of fear, and run in the opposite direction when the bump into me :lol: Call me evil, I enjoy it.
---How to---
Gaining weight is a full time job. It takes CONSISTENCY and DEDICATION.
Buy a Gym membership, can't buy a Gym membership because your S.A. is too severe? No prob! Mailorder a weight set!
Heres the system I use to much success.
Day 1- Chest and Back - Bench Press, Peck Fly, Military Press, Decline Bench Press, Dumbell Rows, and 45* Cable Rows.
Day 2- Off
Day 3- Arms & Shoulders - Seated Curls, hammer curls, shrugs, skull crushers, isolated cable rows, overhead cable pull downs, ski rows.
Day 4- Off
Day 5- Legs - Squats, Leg Press, Leg curls, Reverse Leg curls, lunges.
*This is just a standard system, you can find one you like more if you prefer it!
*It's important to take days off, your body needs a chance to heal and build muscle.
*If your JUST starting to lift weights, good news! You can actually BURN fat and GAIN muscle while just starting out. Take advantage!
---Diet---
Who doesn't love to eat?
The rule of thumb with gaining muscle is to have 1 GRAM of PROTEIN per LEAN LB. of BODY! I weigh 192 lbs., I have roughly 15 lbs. of fat, I need
177 Grams of Protein per day to gain muscle.
Next, your calorie intake. If your an Ectomorph(Skinny by genetics), then you can eat to your hearts desire to gain weight, chances are you won't gain much fat.
If your a Mesomorth(like me), you'll have to carefully monitor your fat intake with your protein to minimize your fat growth. Mesomorphs tend to gain muscle & fat easily.
Endomorphs, are chubby people by genetics. They can gain muscle extremely fast, but also gain fat rapidy...and have a difficult time losing that fat.
The standard person needs 200 calories ABOVE they're standard calorie needs to gain muscle! Search google for a Calorie Calculator to find yours!
---Supplments---
Protein powder - Optimum Nutrition and Muscle Milk make some great tasting and very effective Whey powders. Protein powders assist you get that extra protein you need!
Creatine- Ethyl Ester is my personal favorite, monohydrate is what most people use. Creatine essentially allows water to build up under your skin, ontop of your muscles. Minor assistance with strength gains.
Glutamine- Helps your body digest Amino Acids...Not scientifically proven.
Nitric Oxide- Dialates your blood vessels to give you a 'pumped' look. Cosmetic only.
Amino Acids- Helps break down proteins for better absorbtion.
Steroids- Bad.
Prohormones- VERY VERY BAD. WORSE THAN STEROIDS!!! These 'trick' your organs into producing more androtestosterone and testosterone, very dangerous, very cheap. You like manboobs? I dont!
Everything Else- Crap. You don't need it, you don't want it.
IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS ON MUSCLE BUILDING ILL BE GLAD TO ANSWER!
