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ShyGuy1994

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Please don't judge me while reading this. I know some people on here tell me to go up to people, but I just can't do it. I mean, why is it all on me? I'm afraid of people at my own age. I always sit at a lunchtable waiting for people, but I know nobody's gonna come to me. I feel like nobody on campus likes me at all. I guess the people just don't care about others who are shy, depressed, isolated, all that stuff that we are suffering from. I just wish there was a way to get rid of my SA, because I just can't take it anymore. I'm really sick of it, I can't believe it's almost the end of October, everyone's made their friends already except me. I still haven't made any friends in my classes, afraid to start a conversation with classmates, and afraid to join clubs or events. I don't think a counselor will help me at all, but that's their fault, not mine. I wish I could just start my college life over again to August 20, 2012.
 
truffleshuffle

truffleshuffle

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ShyGuy1994 said:
Please don't judge me while reading this. I know some people on here tell me to go up to people, but I just can't do it. I mean, why is it all on me? I'm afraid of people at my own age. I always sit at a lunchtable waiting for people, but I know nobody's gonna come to me. I feel like nobody on campus likes me at all. I guess the people just don't care about others who are shy, depressed, isolated, all that stuff that we are suffering from. I just wish there was a way to get rid of my SA, because I just can't take it anymore. I'm really sick of it, I can't believe it's almost the end of October, everyone's made their friends already except me. I still haven't made any friends in my classes, afraid to start a conversation with classmates, and afraid to join clubs or events. I don't think a counselor will help me at all, but that's their fault, not mine. I wish I could just start my college life over again to August 20, 2012.
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It can be hard to do man specialy being shy but you can;t sit the whole time and wait. I know how you feel its hard to just walk up and start a convo with people but if you put your self out there even just a little it starts to get a bit eazier. Just take it slow it takes time.
 
truffleshuffle

truffleshuffle

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ShyGuy1994 said:
It'll probably take me until after graduation to make friends.
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Do you have any hobbies or anything like that? Maybe find a club that is about something you enjoy and join it. It might make it eazier to talke to someone and make friends that way. I mean at least you would have something in common at the very least.
 
truffleshuffle

truffleshuffle

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ShyGuy1994 said:
I play PS3, listening to music, watch tv, browsing on my computer, and I work.
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Thats about what I do as well only I can;t play my ps3 anymore it broke:( At school maybe start out by saying good morning to a few people in your classes and work you way up to chatting about more stuff.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Yeah, exactly what truffle said. Counsellors are not supposed to be putting you down, and if they do, they're not doing their job properly.
 
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