Friends started a war.
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Iluv
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That sounds terrible! I think the best thing to do is to avoid people you feel are going to hurt you. If they confront you tell them you're not part of it and don't hate them or anybody in fact. The best thing to do is try to not cross paths with them but don't go out of your way to not cross because then they'll feel you're easy to push around. If they try something tell the principal, even though it may be embarrassing they can get suspended or better yet expelled.
Don't involve yourself & don't be around when your friends are fighting with them. Don't stand on either side just walk away.
Don't involve yourself & don't be around when your friends are fighting with them. Don't stand on either side just walk away.
Shyangel
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That's good advice, Iluv. You should definitely take it to heart, Vin.
Try and avoid having friends in your life that are confrontational. Those kind of people will get you into bad situations. If you think your friends are like that then you should stop hanging out with them. You don't have to feel the need to jump into every fight one of your friends gets into. It's their business. they shouldn't be forcing you into their problems anyway. There are situations where you should get involved, like if their getting beaten up by a bully, or picked on in anyway, you should help. Not necessarily by getting physically involved; Unless you find it absolutely necessary.
Try and avoid having friends in your life that are confrontational. Those kind of people will get you into bad situations. If you think your friends are like that then you should stop hanging out with them. You don't have to feel the need to jump into every fight one of your friends gets into. It's their business. they shouldn't be forcing you into their problems anyway. There are situations where you should get involved, like if their getting beaten up by a bully, or picked on in anyway, you should help. Not necessarily by getting physically involved; Unless you find it absolutely necessary.
WeirdyMcGee
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It takes a brave person to stand against the crowd and say 'no'.
Any fights that were going on between people I knew- I stayed out of because I don't care for conflict. I feel like it's unnecessary and the reason for said fights are usually complete nonsense or just plain juvenile.
I can't tell you what to do though-- because you are a different person.
Do what feels right to you and if you end up losing friends over it; they weren't very understanding friends to begin with.
There are ways to avoid conflict so long as you stay out of the center of it if that's what you'd rather do.
Any fights that were going on between people I knew- I stayed out of because I don't care for conflict. I feel like it's unnecessary and the reason for said fights are usually complete nonsense or just plain juvenile.
I can't tell you what to do though-- because you are a different person.
Do what feels right to you and if you end up losing friends over it; they weren't very understanding friends to begin with.
There are ways to avoid conflict so long as you stay out of the center of it if that's what you'd rather do.
luck254
Active member
Jump right in to defend them always...
They will help when you get in trouble and it always feels good to defend your own, doesn't matter if you are not exactly a good fighter, what it actually matters is that you tried your best defending them.
NEVER let go your friends because of insecurity
They will help when you get in trouble and it always feels good to defend your own, doesn't matter if you are not exactly a good fighter, what it actually matters is that you tried your best defending them.
NEVER let go your friends because of insecurity
da_illest101
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fight battles that you can't avoid, those you can, simply try your best to avoid them. It's not your fight, just stay out of it
DragonFlight777
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This depends A LOT on your own priorities and preferences, there are absolutely no right or wrong answers, just a matter of what's most suited for you.
That being said, I'd suggest you make a list with pros and cons for jumping in, and then rate each of these arguments based on its importance, on a scale from 1 to 10. This will help you be more aware of what your actual needs are and you'll be able to make a more accurate decision. Good luck.