EnigmatiConduit
Well-known member
Sorry if I ramble on a bit, not the most interesting topic – I know!
I have a friend who I have known since I was 5, we lost contact for a couple of years through high school but got back in contact about a year ago. He is apparently in love with me and has been for years. The other night he completely freaked out on me – blamed me for his depression and said in a very long winded, hurtful way that he wishes we had never spoke again and basically that I have ruined his life.
I suppose my question to you guys is, why is it that people think they are entitled to lash out so horribly in what can only be described as a tantrum, simply because they aren’t getting what they want?!
People will tell you a few things, they aren’t real friends, don’t let it bother you so much... and a few other things along those lines, so I am well aware of all of that – it really doesn’t help hey! I’m not talking about, you know, 5 guys in my lifetime… I am talking about practically every friend I have ever had.
I pretty much can’t have any male friends, and some female too… There is just always some problem of this sort. I am finding that people don’t see worth in having me as a friend, they would rather walk away if they can’t have exactly what they want. All that means to me is that I am worth nothing without being able to have sex with me. Having this constantly happen is so tiring and confidence crushing and I am beginning to think less and less of myself, I am not anything other than something to f *** – i.e. – worthless.
I have a friend who I have known since I was 5, we lost contact for a couple of years through high school but got back in contact about a year ago. He is apparently in love with me and has been for years. The other night he completely freaked out on me – blamed me for his depression and said in a very long winded, hurtful way that he wishes we had never spoke again and basically that I have ruined his life.
I suppose my question to you guys is, why is it that people think they are entitled to lash out so horribly in what can only be described as a tantrum, simply because they aren’t getting what they want?!
People will tell you a few things, they aren’t real friends, don’t let it bother you so much... and a few other things along those lines, so I am well aware of all of that – it really doesn’t help hey! I’m not talking about, you know, 5 guys in my lifetime… I am talking about practically every friend I have ever had.
I pretty much can’t have any male friends, and some female too… There is just always some problem of this sort. I am finding that people don’t see worth in having me as a friend, they would rather walk away if they can’t have exactly what they want. All that means to me is that I am worth nothing without being able to have sex with me. Having this constantly happen is so tiring and confidence crushing and I am beginning to think less and less of myself, I am not anything other than something to f *** – i.e. – worthless.
