Jay Cataldo
Well-known member
First off, I'm not at all letting out my anger at you, I'm simply just stating my opinion on the subject and criticizing your methods.
You're not angry? My bad. I couldn't think of any other reason why you would try to insult me simply because you didn't agree with my point of view.
And still don't see how you're "criticizing my methods." What methods are you criticizing? It just looks like you have an issue with humans being compared to animals in any way, for any reason. So let me pose my question again: What's wrong with making these comparisons if they help increase our understanding of the human condition?
The one who seems to let his instinct control his mind seems to be you, not me, so calm down and don't act like a child. I've done nothing wrong, I'm not insulting you or your character {wherever that one came from?}
Accusing someone of "seeing girls as animals and not humans" isn't an insult? Was it meant to be a compliment? And what about this: "dont act like a child"
I certainly won't apologise.
Fair enough.
If you find critics offensive you should go back to elementary school and start all over again on how to debate.
Good point. Although, I don't have a problem with critics who criticize my material. I do, however, find some personal attacks to be offensive, especially when they border on libel and defamation of character.
And since I'm in need of a lesson on the etiquette of a proper, civilized debate please answer the following question: Am I making a mistake by attacking your arguments instead of attacking you personally by accusing you of being "childish" and "seeing all women as animals and not humans?" - I was notorious for napping in elementary debate class.
I'd in fact suggest you stop using the straw man's arguments. That list in the bottom of your post are good advises, and I've not described them as "bad advice", so stop putting words in my mouth. Are you man enough to realize this childish way of debating?
The list in the bottom of the post (and the statement following it) was addressed to everyone following this thread, not just you.
And you did say "Reminds me a lot of PUA, hence the fact that I can't take it too seriously," and I assume that anything that shouldn't be taken seriously can be considered bad advice. Is that too much of a logical leap? Then I apologize... let me rephrase the statement: Please explain why you think the advice in the list should not be taken seriously.
And please point out how I used a straw man argument as opposed to addressing your original positions. I'm pretty sure I addressed everything you said point by point.
I think you know what I mean when talking about intelligence over instincts.
I understand the concept but I don't see the point you're trying to make with it.
We don't drag a pretty girl back to our hideouts and shag her just because she's attractive.
Really? Even been to a bar or club? These places are primarily designed to give men the opportunity to attempt to drag a girl back to his hideout and shag her, for no other reason than she's attractive and he's horny. I'm not sure if guys still prefer to club girls over the head, since alcohol seems to be equally effective in large amounts. And occasionally, you'll even hear stories of some sick bastard resorting to roofies.
Now, you might be far too cultured and civilized to even consider an act such as this, but I assure you that a large percentage of the world's population has not yet evolved beyond this stage.
We don't challenge other guys to a fight where the winner take them all.
Really? Ever been to a bar or club? In some of these places, men "fight" with their humor, stories, body language, etc. in order to win the favor of the girl they're attracted to (some even throw punches when they seem to be "losing"). I'm not sure if some guys are able to leave with ALL the girls in the club, but I've seen guys walk out with two or three on their arms, for sure.
We act like humans, talk, impress, make jokes, stories, use body language to gain a girl's attention, hence the fact that we use our intelligence. Or at least should use our intelligence, first and foremost.
Humans talk.... and animals also talk (aka communicate with sounds).
Humans impress... and animals also impress (with the size of their nests, food supply, etc. and peacocks will show off their feathers).
Humans make jokes.... animals.... well.... my dog thinks it's funny when he pees on my bed. Not sure if this counts.
Humans tell stories... animals... ummm... do Disney stories count?
Humans use body language to gain a female's attention... and so do many (if not all) animals.
So you're saying that when animals do all this stuff, they are just going on "instinct" but when humans do it, they are always using "intelligence?"
And again, why is it "wrong" to compare humans to animals?
And more importantly, what point are you trying to make? How does the assertion that we "should use our intelligence first and foremost" relate to what we're talking about?
All in all I'm addressing the very content of your post: to use the tactics and skills a male dog uses to control his bitch, then transform it into human methods.
Maybe this is where you're confused. Let me ask a few questions...
1. By giving a woman affection and sex and not allowing her to walk all over you, are you in essence, "controlling" her?
2. Does praising your woman's accomplishments lead you to have more "control" over her?
3. By not allowing yourself to be dragged around like a kid by your girl, are you now "controlling" her?
4. When you ignore her when she's being nasty to you, are you now in "control" of her?
5. By becoming more decisive and making an effort to "lead" in the relationship, does this mean you now have total "control"?
If you're looking for ways to control women, I think you need to go speak to Chris Brown because, from what I hear, beating a woman senseless and crushing her self-esteem to the point where she believes she deserves abuse is a much more effective form of control than anything I proposed. You might also want to speak to the guy that kept his daughter locked up in the cellar for years. Cellars are always good for control. Also, the movie The Manchurian Candidate might have some useful tips.
Oh, and magic wands. Always effective in a pinch.
Sorry... I'm being childish again.