Inferiorpotter
Active member
Hey guys how are you? I hope you are all on the way to recovery faster. Anyway, I have been having this problem for a long time since i was a teen and i think it's one of the factors stopping me from having healthy relationships.
Why do I feel responsible as if it is my duty to make offenders who offend me feel better? I mean when some people give me attitude and say rude things at my face, why DO I immediately want to make THEM feel better when it is THEM who offended me? It feels like I have a responsibility to make people who hurt my feelings feel better. Then I actually DO start talking to those rude people to put the awkward situation at ease, but actually it makes things more awkward. Damn....I just don't understand my psyche. Does anyone have this problem as well?
Why do I feel responsible as if it is my duty to make offenders who offend me feel better? I mean when some people give me attitude and say rude things at my face, why DO I immediately want to make THEM feel better when it is THEM who offended me? It feels like I have a responsibility to make people who hurt my feelings feel better. Then I actually DO start talking to those rude people to put the awkward situation at ease, but actually it makes things more awkward. Damn....I just don't understand my psyche. Does anyone have this problem as well?