Quietguy11
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Tonight I'm feeling a little down, but not in despair or anything. I just feel like I'm never going to measure up in any kind of social standard. My Doctor tells me that it's okay to be a quiet person with not much to talk about, and that it's not abnormal in anyway. But it still bothers me when I see my friends all in sync with one another while I am just basically held by silence because of the anxiety I feel in these social situations.
Occasionally I can get a few words out here and there, and make some small talk, but to actually keep my train of thought going for anymore than a few minutes, I just can't do it! I feel that I will always be alone because I am clueless when it comes to the how's of social interaction.
I find that medication has made me a lot more relaxed in terms of being able to laugh and sync with everyone in that capacity, but conversation doesn't come naturally. I still pretty much never have anything to talk about even though I am actively involved with my interests, stuff I should be able to talk about easily.
I'm trying not to make this a sob story, nor am I trying to give the impression that I'm just here to complain. I am just tired of not being able to feel accepted, even though I am accepted. It's like my mind is not convinced that I don't have to perform in any kind of way in order to fit in like a glove.
For those who feel that they can relate to me. Please share in the comments how you deal with these social problems, and how you have learned to just accept yourself and have peace despite not feeling fully synced with people.
Occasionally I can get a few words out here and there, and make some small talk, but to actually keep my train of thought going for anymore than a few minutes, I just can't do it! I feel that I will always be alone because I am clueless when it comes to the how's of social interaction.
I find that medication has made me a lot more relaxed in terms of being able to laugh and sync with everyone in that capacity, but conversation doesn't come naturally. I still pretty much never have anything to talk about even though I am actively involved with my interests, stuff I should be able to talk about easily.
I'm trying not to make this a sob story, nor am I trying to give the impression that I'm just here to complain. I am just tired of not being able to feel accepted, even though I am accepted. It's like my mind is not convinced that I don't have to perform in any kind of way in order to fit in like a glove.
For those who feel that they can relate to me. Please share in the comments how you deal with these social problems, and how you have learned to just accept yourself and have peace despite not feeling fully synced with people.