Feeling depressed and lonely at Christmas Eve

[ThePunisher]

At work, this lady said that she spent Xmas eve with her boyfriend.

My god, did that make me feel so empty. I did spend my day with my immediate family, and was ok... but since I was 10 years old,

lol I wanted a gf since I was 5, yeah :S But I didn't really feel lonely until I was like 15.

I have wanted to have a girl, a lady, so close to me, that I could spend such an important holiday as Christmas with her.

I feel the same way you do.

This life is hard, fellas. I hope we all keep on fighting and not give up this coming new year.

Thxs, you too, and yeah don't give up, it's better than doing nothing about it.

 

[ThePunisher]

+1. Always fight.

Make that plus +2

 

[ThePunisher]

Not this year because for the first time in my life i have a job which requires working on Christmas eve (i only get Christmas day off) but i do know the feeling. I have my parents but it's not the same as snuggling up to a girlfriend (if i had one) in front of the fire, opening presents::

Thanks glad you feel the same way I do.

Btw I let sully go XD

 

[ffeev223234]

i dont hate christmas entirely because it is the birthday of christ anyway but i do dislike spending christmas with the people i am with. they are always questioning me as to why i am so quiet.

 

[ffeev223234]

If must of you dislike celebrating christmas, image celebrating new years for everyone in this site!

 

[ffeev223234]

to avoid emptiness, the first idea that should come into mind is establishing a goal and try fulfilling that goal. Working on that obstacle, could help forget or vanish at least some of the saddness you all have.

 

[Dronee]

"Don't wait for anyone to complete you"... I've never ever been in a relationship of any sort due to busyness (typo on purpose). Then there suddenly comes a time when it strikes you that... you're lonely. And sometimes the most lonely time is when you're being surrounded by people... if that makes any sense to you.

Still, the quote is a good advice.

 

[KiaraBlue]

Is there any thread 'feeling depressed and lonely at new year'? because that's how will I be tomorrow.. I can't believe it turned that way..first time that I will be all alone when clock bangs 12.. I am trying to convince myself that it'sn not a big deal..and that it's only the regular day but..uf :

 

[ThePunisher]

to avoid emptiness, the first idea that should come into mind is establishing a goal and try fulfilling that goal. Working on that obstacle, could help forget or vanish at least some of the saddness you all have.

Hmmmm well the funny thing is that goal for me is to get a lover. And yeah I've been trying to fulfill that goal for a long time now. But sometimes I just can't help feeling sad and wanting to cry. But ty for the advice anyways.

 

[ThePunisher]

Is there any thread 'feeling depressed and lonely at new year'? because that's how will I be tomorrow.. I can't believe it turned that way..first time that I will be all alone when clock bangs 12.. I am trying to convince myself that it'sn not a big deal..and that it's only the regular day but..uf :

lol you want me to make once, even though it's too late, maybe for chinese new year? XD Sorry for the bad joke :|

Hmmmm oddly enough I don't feel sad during new years/eve. To me it's feels like a fresh start for me.

But sorry that you had to be alone during the new year /hugs

 

[ThePunisher]

Someone wise(r than me) once said: Don't wait for anyone to complete you.

Concentrate on yourself first and learn to love yourself first.

Yeah I know that, I'm still trying to become a stronger person both physically and mentally, cause I'm not satisfied with the way I am atm.

But I guess I can't help feeling that I need a lover to complete me. It's cause I'm "looking for more" in a lover than you're typical average person, that's why it means a lot to me.

The alternative is to spend forever chasing a carrot on a stick.

lol plays "running in the 90s" music while picturing someone doing that XD Sorry couldn't help myself XD

But yeah it's a good quote.

 

[Johno]

**** happrns