Fear of never being independent...

[Nowascki]

I hit the majority recently but I'm a person totally dependent yet. I can't resolve my problems by myself. I can't barely speak to any unknow person. I don't know what I'm gonna do, afterall I can't be like this forever, I'll have to get a job and have my own life but I don't know what to do to get better. I'm really afraid of whatever is going to happen...

 

[Hellhound]

Have you tried therapy?

I have the same fear. I can do very little on my own. However, I'm doing therapy to try and fix that, I just hope that works.

 

[shakethelight]

Oh man. I totally relate. It's the worse feeling. My worst fear is if something was to happen to my mom I'd have to end my life cause I wouldn't know how to do anything let alone cope.

But I agree with hellhound- If you aren't in therapy maybe thats something you should look into. I know for me, its giving me a glimmer of hope. You CAN be independent. It's a lot of work but in the end, it's worth it.