Ok, here goes....
Basically I could never use phones before, scared to crap of me, but I've slowly managed to go half way over the years. Basically, I can't call people unless they give me a specific time or tell me when. I won't call them just out of the blue because I don't want to disturb/annoy them, or catch them at a time they are busy. The reason I think is because I would feel so rejected if they were busy and couldn't talk when I tried.
Now, I have no problem picking up the phone IF it is someone calling that I know, but if it's a complete stranger I'll just lock up and hang up, or stutter real bad.
Does anyone else get like this? Especially with the not being able to call other people because of the fear of rejection issue, if the person is busy? Basically everyone has to txt me before hand and say "call me" to let me know when to call, or I won't do it, even in emergencies.
Would like to know.
Basically I could never use phones before, scared to crap of me, but I've slowly managed to go half way over the years. Basically, I can't call people unless they give me a specific time or tell me when. I won't call them just out of the blue because I don't want to disturb/annoy them, or catch them at a time they are busy. The reason I think is because I would feel so rejected if they were busy and couldn't talk when I tried.
Now, I have no problem picking up the phone IF it is someone calling that I know, but if it's a complete stranger I'll just lock up and hang up, or stutter real bad.
Does anyone else get like this? Especially with the not being able to call other people because of the fear of rejection issue, if the person is busy? Basically everyone has to txt me before hand and say "call me" to let me know when to call, or I won't do it, even in emergencies.
Would like to know.