megalon
Well-known member
I feel like a lot of my problems with opening up to people stem from how my mother acted when I was growing up. She always finds something to complain about. She is constantly instigating arguments with my dad and my sister. I was riding in the car yesterday with her and my sister and they got in a heated argument. I did what I always do in such situations, what years of dealing with her have taught me to do - sit there quietly, don't show any emotion, don't choose a side. I'm always walking on eggshells around her. I've learned to hide my opinion on anything, lest it provides her with more fuel for the fire. On the outside I seem like a cold, emotionless robot. I can't allow myself to open up to people because I fear every little thing I might say or do will give them ammunition to use against me.