The "exposure" method seemed to work for me a few months ago. The first step I took was forcing myself to make eye contact. Make a conscience effort to look people in the eye whenever you see them, even if they have their back turned to you or they are too far away to notice you. I felt so much better after I was able to do this. I also started spending more time on my appearance, making sure my clothes and hair were more in style. I then began forcing myself to make small talk, this can be very tough depending on how bad your SA is to begin with. I always try to go against the voice in my head that tells me no one wants to hear what I have to say. Always be thinking of things to say to break any awkward silence, even if it's as menial as commenting on the weather. Don't be afraid to let your guard down and show off your sense of humor. Contrary to what you may believe, the vast majority of people aren't out to get you. Through small talk I started to make friends with coworkers. I consider them the first real friends I've ever had. I got a few good friends who even invited me to go to bars and such after work. When I was sitting there, talking to my friends, I felt like I was on top of the world. I eventually realized that I wasn't inferior to everyone else as my SA would have me believe. Lately though, I fear I have reached a plateau, and that realization has dragged me back down a bit. I know for someone just embarking on the road to recovery, all this seems easier said then done. Hopefully this might be helpful to someone, if not then at least I think it helped me to put this into words and get it out there.