T. Charles
Member
My older brother is a super outgoing Alpha male who was always big man on campus, very successful with women, and one of those charasmatic people that has the uncanny knack to befriend just about everyone he meets.
I was always refered to by classmates as 'Bill's" brother- Living in someone's shadow is never fun.
In contrast, I've had very little luck with women- rather than attract people, I seem to repel them, and I find it very hard to both establish and maintain relationships. I'm close to 2 people- My mother and my best friend (who has been my best frind since 1981)-My father is estranged from all of his sons.
I don't have any other friends, except for some 'internet' friends, but none that I hang out with or talk to on the phone.
I WANT to have friends, but I really don't know how to make- and keep friendships-
I'll admit it-I'm jealous of my brother. Being social, making friends, and meeting women comes so easy to him, and it's so elusive to me.
Sometimes i wonder if my envy of my brother's success with making friends and meeting women caused me to retreat into my world of shyness.
If anything I should have followed his example- But my brother is a strong Alpha Male, and I am no alpha type...
Do you have a sibling that is mr/ms popularity?
What effect, if any, has their success with people had on your ability to befriend people?
I was always refered to by classmates as 'Bill's" brother- Living in someone's shadow is never fun.
In contrast, I've had very little luck with women- rather than attract people, I seem to repel them, and I find it very hard to both establish and maintain relationships. I'm close to 2 people- My mother and my best friend (who has been my best frind since 1981)-My father is estranged from all of his sons.
I don't have any other friends, except for some 'internet' friends, but none that I hang out with or talk to on the phone.
I WANT to have friends, but I really don't know how to make- and keep friendships-
I'll admit it-I'm jealous of my brother. Being social, making friends, and meeting women comes so easy to him, and it's so elusive to me.
Sometimes i wonder if my envy of my brother's success with making friends and meeting women caused me to retreat into my world of shyness.
If anything I should have followed his example- But my brother is a strong Alpha Male, and I am no alpha type...
Do you have a sibling that is mr/ms popularity?
What effect, if any, has their success with people had on your ability to befriend people?