k8steroonis
Active member
To not be happy?
I've just realized something. I feel so pressured to be happy in this world. Like sadness is not okay. I know the amount of sadness I've been having is not okay. It obviously means there is a problem. But I've always felt like if I'm not happy then, no one will like me, and therefore I felt pressure to be happy all the time. That ended up making me feel completely miserable.
I guess I just don't feel like I even know myself anymore. That all-the-time happy, trying to entertain everyone, people pleaser, wasn't me. But this horridly depressed person isn't me. But I've never been able to strike a medium.
So I guess the only explanation for why I continue to make myself sad is that it's sort of a rebellion against what everyone thinks I should be. But in the end I'm the only one losing here. I see this problem, I just am not quite sure how to fix it at all.
I've just realized something. I feel so pressured to be happy in this world. Like sadness is not okay. I know the amount of sadness I've been having is not okay. It obviously means there is a problem. But I've always felt like if I'm not happy then, no one will like me, and therefore I felt pressure to be happy all the time. That ended up making me feel completely miserable.
I guess I just don't feel like I even know myself anymore. That all-the-time happy, trying to entertain everyone, people pleaser, wasn't me. But this horridly depressed person isn't me. But I've never been able to strike a medium.
So I guess the only explanation for why I continue to make myself sad is that it's sort of a rebellion against what everyone thinks I should be. But in the end I'm the only one losing here. I see this problem, I just am not quite sure how to fix it at all.