Do you ever feel alone??

PrincessKitty

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Most of friends have got boyfriends or girlfriends and I feel left out.
Some of them say "omg i love you so much" or "he/she took me out i had the most wonderful time"

I don't know i just feel left out..

I just wondered if you ever feel like this??
 

DepravedFurball

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I don't know i just feel left out..


Hey, if you've still got friends, then you're still on the right track. And they'll be able to support you if/when you find a partner of your own.

In the mean-while, whenever they talk about their problems/experiences, take it as an opportunity to learn from them, since your day will come at some point. ^^
 

oddOne

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Most of friends have got boyfriends or girlfriends and I feel left out.
Some of them say "omg i love you so much" or "he/she took me out i had the most wonderful time"

I don't know i just feel left out..

I just wondered if you ever feel like this??

It just gets old . . . almost always about mundane arguments . . . about other mundane arguments. Shit just becomes distracting.

. . . but they're alright guys that are otherwise pleasing to be around . . . and I know that talking to each other about their respective girlfriends facilitates their coding . . . so, I just pull out my handy dandy silicone earplugs and close my office door.

As for getting jealous, no. It is basically gamer nerds talking about MMORPGs, relationships, beer . . . all the while IMing/emailing about the various s/w projects they've been assigned.

It is usually a ****ing riot . . . but when I tire of it, I just reach for the aforementioned plugs.
 

oddOne

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Most of friends have got boyfriends or girlfriends and I feel left out.
Some of them say "omg i love you so much" or "he/she took me out i had the most wonderful time"

I don't know i just feel left out..

I just wondered if you ever feel like this??

But really, the first thing that ALWAYS occurs to me when listening to their personal matters is how foreign that concept seems to me; I'm so much more private about my personal life . . . yet, they talk about matters that have me blushing . . . and I'm a 28 year old open minded guy! It is especially fascinating how fluidly they transition between topics that have absolutely nothing in common with each other, yet (lots) of very high quality work gets pumped out.
 
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MikeyC

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Most of friends have got boyfriends or girlfriends and I feel left out.
Have you discussed this with them? I don't think they mean to leave you out but this sort of thing happens a lot when two people get together.

I have been the third wheel on so many occasions and it's never, ever, ever pretty. I hate it so much.
 

PrincessKitty

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Have you discussed this with them? I don't think they mean to leave you out but this sort of thing happens a lot when two people get together.

I have been the third wheel on so many occasions and it's never, ever, ever pretty. I hate it so much.

I haven't talked to them.. I mean I have 6 friends! who are already got boyfriends/girlfriends and yeahh I do feel like the fird wheel. Its not pretty.
If I do talk them I don't want them to offend them, if you know what I mean
 

Marc7

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Idk if you feel this way but when I went to the mall yesterday I felt frustrated and sadden by the friendships and relationship I saw to keep it short because on this post I had to write over so that frustrating too so I kept what I had to say short.
 

Predacon

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Can't says I've ever felt lonely. It's like they say being alone and being lonely aren't the same thing.
 
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