iamthenra
Well-known member
I feel like I can relate to your problem. People will talk to me, and treat me okay like everyone else. But if I actually tell them after they have gotten to know me a bit, then they stay clear of me, and treat me differently. I tell them I have SA and depression and what was once a good friendly relationship, is no more... Then they will sometimes think that everyone just gets nervous and my SA is no different than anyone elses anxiety. Then if I tell them just how bad it is for me, like I went on my very first date when I was 37 years old, then they are cold to me and just leave me alone. SA is the kiss of death for someone who wants a relationship. I have no hope ever finding someone... It's such an isolated lonely miserable life...