destiny to be alone

[d1ghost]

Im 36 m and my life suckz Well i never had any close frnds people seem to avoid me
Me even whn i was in high schoool nobody wnted to talk with me I use to be very athletic
But i stop whn i was 25 because i said whts the point no one wnts to be close
To you i have a invisable aura tht tells people stay away
Or im invisable to peope.I tried to make friends believe me
Joining clubs or activities but no luck so i just gave up im outgoing and friendly
Towards people but never get the same respnse back
I recently took up smoking i knw bad habit
But helps my lonliness i have a phone but only use it to surf the net
And only has one phone number my mom which i help to take care of
Other then my wrk dont really have anyone to talk to i knw whn i die there will
Be no one gretting me in the afterlife and will be alone there as well whts the point
Of trying to change things you cant control

 

[redmatter]

Take it one day at a time. Maybe it'll be the next club or activity...

When there's life things will surely change... for better or worse?

 

[2QuietForThem]

I am the wrong person to give advice because I'm not a people person, but you may feel better by hanging out at places where you can sit down, read (maybe), and appear to be just another person in the place. Borders Books used to have great seating, and I would go in there and read books, knowing that I was extremely lonely, but at least I didn't look it.

 

[Silatuyok]

Welcome to the forum, d1ghost. You're not alone here. This forum is filled with some of the most fascinating people I have ever known, and there is always a discussion or debate or exchange of support and comraderie to be had at any time of the day. Perhaps this is the perfect place to beginning finding a cure for your loneliness.

 

[Blabla..]

nobody is destined to be alone , there is always someone for you on this big planet , sometime it's hard to meet the right people , especially when we get older and don't go out , but don't loose hope my friend , you gotta keep trying if this is really what you want

 

[Kiwong]

Hi there D1ghost, keep trying if not being alone is what you desire.

 

[OceanMist]

I don't believe one's destiny is to be alone. As humans, we are designed to need other people. I hate that we need others, but I'm seeing that we do need people as I'm not happy by myself all the time.