B.Maria
Member
Hi, Ive just joined and desperately need some advice.
I have accidentally made a friend. He gets the same bus as me in the morning, and started talking to me when we were waiting at the stop. Then he asked for my number (after a few weeks of chatting). I grudgingly gave it to him (as I hate having to communicate with someone all day). He has been texting me every day for about 3 weeks now.
It wasn't too bad at first as I was revising for exams and could use that as an excuse not to reply and not to go out. But as soon as the exams ended I agreed to go to the cinema with him and to lunch the week later.
Now I was my normal quite/ untalkative self, and people usually leave me alone after the brief fascination they have with the "weird, quiet, intelligent type". But he wont give up, and keeps trying to get me to open up to him. When he texts me, I feel like I'm being interrogated! I cant cope with normal relationships, let alone one where someone keeps hounding me and trying to be my best friend.
Usually I would just ignore an annoying person until they get the message to leave me alone. But he has had a really bad time of late, and I feel sorry for him, also he gets the same bus as me... I'm really stuck here. I don't know how to deal with people's emotions, and don't want to upset him!
I have accidentally made a friend. He gets the same bus as me in the morning, and started talking to me when we were waiting at the stop. Then he asked for my number (after a few weeks of chatting). I grudgingly gave it to him (as I hate having to communicate with someone all day). He has been texting me every day for about 3 weeks now.
It wasn't too bad at first as I was revising for exams and could use that as an excuse not to reply and not to go out. But as soon as the exams ended I agreed to go to the cinema with him and to lunch the week later.
Now I was my normal quite/ untalkative self, and people usually leave me alone after the brief fascination they have with the "weird, quiet, intelligent type". But he wont give up, and keeps trying to get me to open up to him. When he texts me, I feel like I'm being interrogated! I cant cope with normal relationships, let alone one where someone keeps hounding me and trying to be my best friend.
Usually I would just ignore an annoying person until they get the message to leave me alone. But he has had a really bad time of late, and I feel sorry for him, also he gets the same bus as me... I'm really stuck here. I don't know how to deal with people's emotions, and don't want to upset him!