Hi everyone.
Thought i would say something about myself,hope thats ok!
I am 43 nearly 44,I do not work and havnt for 2 years before that i was a cab driver,it was ok but hardly earnt after expensis more than £150 sad but true.Anyway before that
i was a trainee hairdresser but when i aparently was ready to go on the floor i lost my nerve and left,just didnt think i could cut hair even though i was taught by one of the best in the buisness, became a runner for tv company then became an off line editor but once again when the opertunity came to earn great money i felt i just wasnt eqiped to do it even though i had had 6 years training(nut isnt it).My social life has always been good because even though i am a little odd i have been out with some cracking woman and i mean cracking.In the end it was the same thing cos i could not earn a decent wage or have a future i was tossed asside(understandably i think).These girls woman or whatever could meet rich men and have a great life so even though i am funny,weard, aparently good looking it just not enough in the real world.I have been engaged twice both broken down cos no hope for future.Strangely i met up with my first ever girlfriend in a supermarket and we have been together since 4 years in all .Her marrage broke down and she got house out of it and we live there.We both spoke bout giveing up cabbing cos it was rubbish pay and hard work and i gave up, problem is she left a fella that was earning 150k a year and i am earning nothing.She obviously loves me and i her but i just feel i cant cope with work and find it difficult to socialise where as she is social animal.What am i going to do,we are ok for the moment but all we do is live,no holidays or decent cars.I want to provide but am filled with fear everytime i think about everything i have failed at.I take 225mg venlafaxine which is a miracle drug for me but i still cant really cope with the outside world ,especially not the working world.What can i do,i have always have problems with socialiseing even with my best friens sometimes,odd isnt it,AND every job i went on with cabbing i got nervous even after 20 years.I do not have the answere but feel sure even though my other half loves me to pieces the time will come when i am back liveing in a room by myself.I have doe cbt and found it useless,i have also done a diploma in person centred councilling which i tried to dom professionally but failed cos i kept forgetting what people were talking about,venlafaxine does that.I have tried everything but cant rid myself of the truth that i am A FAILURE:[