Can't get a girlfriend? Come to the dark side

[Thelema]

Lots of hostility to information about attracting the opposite sex!

So, you say that being a failure with women is just you? Sounds like BS to me. What if someone said to you "not being able to tie my shoes is just part of me, and don't you dare try to teach me! I don't want to be one of those willy nilly shoe tiers, they have no morals when it comes to shoes!"?

Lots of good free stuff on the internet.

(I suck with girls by the way, I'm not trying to act like I'm better than anyone else)

 

[SickJoke]

Lots of hostility to information about attracting the opposite sex!

So, you say that being a failure with women is just you? Sounds like BS to me. What if someone said to you "not being able to tie my shoes is just part of me, and don't you dare try to teach me! I don't want to be one of those willy nilly shoe tiers, they have no morals when it comes to shoes!"?

HAHAHA exactly!


Some guys get offended when you show them advice on this topic - it makes them feel inferior. Look, I swallowed my pride and admitted to all of you that I learned this stuff, simply because I want to share the knowledge that helped me. And I'm mostly getting negative feedback. I could've just kept it to myself

 

[SickJoke]

yes please do

Judging by the 1,266 views and counting, it looks like some guys are interested in improving their lives. So, if you have nothing to contribute, please kindly GTFO my thread

 

[SickJoke]

nah I'm pretty sure its just entertaining watching you defend yourself

You could watch without cluttering the thread with useless comments. And it's not like I came up with this stuff, so I'm not defending myself. I'm not making any money by advertising it. I'm only doing this because some guys need help and they don't know where to get it.

 

[TheWall]

nah I'm pretty sure its just entertaining watching you defend yourself

laughoutloud

 

[Andrew]

What a load of horseshit.

Girls are not some kind of game that you can learn to win. You can't just pretend to be somebody that you are not and think that a girl is going to fall for it either. They are not stupid for god's sake.

Relationships are a natural function of being a human, you don't need to be taught anything. There is no secret. You just have to.. you know.. meet people. You can't do that from your basement.

It is nothing like learning to tie your shoes, it is more like buying a book that tells you how to pee.

God I have lost a little faith in this forum reading this thread. Thank God flaky and thewall have restored it a little.

 

[SickJoke]

What a load of horseshit.

Really? Read the reviews. This stuff works.

Girls are not some kind of game that you can learn to win.

Of course not - girls are human beings. The game is seduction. And yes it is a game, step into a night club and see for yourself. Watch any interaction between a man and a woman. We all play games during seduction.

You can't just pretend to be somebody that you are not and think that a girl is going to fall for it either.

This isn't about pretending, it's about conveying your personality. It's about being your BEST self.

They are not stupid for god's sake.

Who said they are? That's a straw man argument.

Relationships are a natural function of being a human, you don't need to be taught anything. There is no secret. You just have to.. you know.. meet people. You can't do that from your basement.

That's not easy for someone who's spent MOST OF THEIR LIFE in their basement. Social skills can be learned.

It is nothing like learning to tie your shoes, it is more like buying a book that tells you how to pee.

Tying your shoes is a skill - a simple one at that. Social skills are also a skill - much more complex.

God I have lost a little faith in this forum reading this thread. Thank God flaky and thewall have restored it a little.

Really? These comments "restored your faith"?

laughoutloud

yes please do

Now go back and compare them to any one of my posts in this thread. If those comments "restored your faith"... wow.

 

[flakeybark]

 

[SickJoke]

Childish, really, flakeybark. A member since 2008 and you're trolling? Can't express a valid point, so you resort to immature tactics?

 

[Andrew]

Really? Read the reviews. This stuff works.

Read the reviews???? Are you that gullible?

Of course not - girls are human beings. The game is seduction. And yes it is a game, step into a night club and see for yourself. Watch any interaction between a man and a woman. We all play games during seduction.

Yes, games that are a fundamental part of who we are, not something you read in a book.

This isn't about pretending, it's about conveying your personality. It's about being your BEST self.

Your what? My best self? What the hell is that.

That's not easy for someone who's spent MOST OF THEIR LIFE in their basement. Social skills can be learned.

These stupid books are designed for people that spend most of their lives in their basement because they are the only people that have not actually gone outside and realised that you don't need as stupid book to learn how to be a human.

Really? These comments "restored your faith"?

Yes, because you are full of crap and just repeat things you learn due to your inherent desire to appear to be an expert. I am going to find your other threads and debunk your lack of understanding of anxiety disorders next.

 

[Day_Tripper]

Alright, since you've been in our shoes, maybe it's not as impossible as I thought. How did you get started? And what where some of the first things you did to be good at small talk? Not with girls, with anyone.

 

[Xavier91]

okay, if u guys enjoy sitting alone having your hand as ur girlfriend, then good for you. i for one im tired of being alone.
im gonna get the book, and try somthing different to help with social phobia.
thnks for the info SickJoke, dont pay attention to these simple minded pricks.

 

[SickJoke]

Read the reviews???? Are you that gullible?

No, I'm not just going by the reviews. I've read the book, I'm participate in their forums, I've watched the DVDs, I've used the skills, and I've seen the results. Now what are you basing your opinion on?

Yes, games that are a fundamental part of who we are, not something you read in a book.

No, it's learned through experience or observation. Someone who's socially isolated does not have the skills.

Your what? My best self? What the hell is that.

Ever heard the expression "be yourself"? That's not enough for most people, because they don't have the tools to express themselves effectively. For them, it's not enough to just "be yourself," but they can gain the knowledge to reveal their "best self."

These stupid books are designed for people that spend most of their lives in their basement because they are the only people that have not actually gone outside and realised that you don't need as stupid book to learn how to be a human.

Have you noticed we're on a SOCIAL ANXIETY FORUM? No, you don't need a book to be human. People have died virgins, or with unhappy relationships - they were human. This stuff is to help people lead the lives they want.

Yes, because you are full of crap and just repeat things you learn due to your inherent desire to appear to be an expert. I am going to find your other threads and debunk your lack of understanding of anxiety disorders next.

Good luck with that. I'm amazed at how hostile you are to someone who only wants to help others. I don't give a **** if anyone considers me an expert, my only intention is to HELP, because I've gone through social anxiety and I know what it's like.

 

[SickJoke]

Alright, since you've been in our shoes, maybe it's not as impossible as I thought. How did you get started? And what where some of the first things you did to be good at small talk? Not with girls, with anyone.

I've got a bunch of other threads on overcoming social anxiety. Check out "Social Anxiety - Solutions to Common Problems" "The Big Keys to Overcome Social Anxiety," the ones in my signature, and there are a few others. If you search for SickJoke's posts you'll see them.

okay, if u guys enjoy sitting alone having your hand as ur girlfriend, then good for you. i for one im tired of being alone.

Yeah I hear that man.

im gonna get the book, and try somthing different to help with social phobia.
thnks for the info SickJoke, dont pay attention to these simple minded pricks.

Haha, thanks

 

[Day_Tripper]

I've got a bunch of other threads on overcoming social anxiety. Check out "Social Anxiety - Solutions to Common Problems" "The Big Keys to Overcome Social Anxiety," the ones in my signature, and there are a few others. If you search for SickJoke's posts you'll see them.

yeah those are general tips that are recommended to everyone, but I want to know what you did, the first change you made when you decided you wanted a new you.

 

[SickJoke]

yeah those are general tips that are recommended to everyone, but I want to know what you did, the first change you made when you decided you wanted a new you.

That's the stuff I did man. I didn't copy/paste those threads, those are the tools I used. Where did I learn those tools? I did a shitload of research - and I mean months locked in my room just doing research. Everything I learned isn't in those threads, but it's a start. I'll be posting more.

 

[Elad]

What is with the hostility towards someone who is trying to be a positive force on these dead forums?

No one is forcing you to read his threads, all hes trying to do is help.

 

[Nervous]

That's the stuff I did man. I didn't copy/paste those threads, those are the tools I used. Where did I learn those tools? I did a shitload of research - and I mean months locked in my room just doing research. Everything I learned isn't in those threads, but it's a start. I'll be posting more.

Are you still locked in your room or have you "sarged"?

 

[SickJoke]

Are you still locked in your room or have you "sarged"?

HAHAHA, you know the lingo eh?

Yes I sarge

 

[SickJoke]

What is with the hostility towards someone who is trying to be a positive force on these dead forums?

No one is forcing you to read his threads, all hes trying to do is help.

Thank you!!!