Being with someone who has SA too?

[0dd1]

Well of course he does, I feel insecure just talking to you ::

But maybe see if he could recommend anything to you? Ask him what kind of music he likes? Or do something that guys love, making eye contact which is hard when you have SA but it might get him to talk. Guys are almost painfully shy as well. Unless you're some cocky as* who thinks he's awesome, boys have a hard time making the first move as too.

It's much harder than it looks! I don't know why i get this way with him.
He's just so cute!!! my sisters think he's weird looking. lol
I know we like a few of the same bands. We actually talked about a band at the cash register while I was paying.

But how do I even ask him if he wants to go out?? I never asked a guy out before. They always asked me out:/

 

[Krista]

It's much harder than it looks! I don't know why i get this way with him.
He's just so cute!!! my sisters think he's weird looking. lol
I know we like a few of the same bands. We actually talked about a band at the cash register while I was paying.

But how do I even ask him if he wants to go out?? I never asked a guy out before. They always asked me out:/

Hm, I know it's really hard. It blows really. Lol, especially with someone you find so attractive. All the guys I think are cute my friends think are ugly but they don't know good taste.

Hm, sometimes you miss opportunities if you don't take a chance but I understand about being asked. If he doesn't take initiative after a bit, I'd say just go for it. It'll be hard but if you want it you gotta take risks.

 

[0dd1]

I wish I could have someone ask him for me-_-

 

[Brokenx]

I wish I could have someone ask him for me-_-

If i knew him i'd ask him for you ::

You're very pretty, next time you see him maybe leave your number on some paper for him, just a thought, then see if he gets in touch..

 

[0dd1]

If i knew him i'd ask him for you ::

You're very pretty, next time you see him maybe leave your number on some paper for him, just a thought, then see if he gets in touch..

I wish you knew him! haha

My sisters think I date nothing but ugly guys lol

That's crazy!

 

[Hellhound]

I suppose there would be more understanding and less judgement, since both share similar problems

 

[johnny 85]

If i knew him i'd ask him for you ::

You're very pretty, next time you see him maybe leave your number on some paper for him, just a thought, then see if he gets in touch..

this is not a bad idea .

 

[Brokenx]

this is not a bad idea .

When are my idea's ever bad?
loool

 

[0dd1]

lol

I don't know about that!

Maybe it will even make his day? lol

He seems kind of awkward and nerdy...

 

[Krista]

lol

I don't know about that!

Maybe it will even make his day? lol

He seems kind of awkward and nerdy...

I think you should, most definitely. When you go in and pay, just hand him your money..maybe exact change so he doesn't have to count it out or anything with a piece of paper with your number on it.

 

[johnny 85]

lol

I don't know about that!

Maybe it will even make his day? lol

He seems kind of awkward and nerdy...

if it were me, it would be the easiest ting. he could txt ya den and ye could arrange something. what do some of the other guys on here think ???

 

[0dd1]

I think you should, most definitely. When you go in and pay, just hand him your money..maybe exact change so he doesn't have to count it out or anything with a piece of paper with your number on it.

Hmm..that actually might work...I can just smile then maybe leave??

 

[Brokenx]

I think the number thing will be the least painful for you

 

[0dd1]

Ok...I think I might do it!

I just gotta figure out a way to get over there...it sucks because it's kind of far away.

What would a guy think if he got a number from some girl that frequently buys music from his store??

BTW I don't even know his name!!

 

[Brokenx]

Ok...I think I might do it!

I just gotta figure out a way to get over there...it sucks because it's kind of far away.

What would a guy think if he got a number from some girl that frequently buys music from his store??

BTW I don't even know his name!!

You will when he texts you ::

 

[Krista]

Ok...I think I might do it!

I just gotta figure out a way to get over there...it sucks because it's kind of far away.

What would a guy think if he got a number from some girl that frequently buys music from his store??

BTW I don't even know his name!!

You will when he texts you ::

Agreed, just give him a casual smile when you do and walk out. Guys are helpless about those things, lol. They really do enjoy it, it'll show that you like him but you're also a little shy and that's endearing. Besides dear, you're very honestly gorgeous and you seem like a very sweet girl. You have nothing to fear but fear itself.

 

[losttroy]

I had two friends that both had similar SA issues....and I set them up....3 years later I hardly see them at all....just spend all their time together doing things by themselves

Well, that sounds VERY good to me! My fiance Kitty and I both have forms of SA, but her's is way more intense than mine. However, we still enjoy each other's time out of anyone else's, in that if anyone could possibly understand us, it is US. There are lots of other compatibility pluses we share, too.

So, you think the dude has SA, also, Odd1? If he does, that note trick should work great. It's silent, which means neither of you have to talk, initially. The note will speak volumes, by saying you like him. And if he rings you back, well... there you go. Good luck with it!

 

[evil feline space cadet]

I think you should, most definitely. When you go in and pay, just hand him your money..maybe exact change so he doesn't have to count it out or anything with a piece of paper with your number on it.

Krista, You absolutely could not be any more amazing!!!

 

[da_illest101]

lol youd turn into hermits...I had two friends that both had similar SA issues....and I set them up....3 years later I hardly see them at all....just spend all their time together doing things by themselves

that's quite good actually