Ohh, I always wished I could be tiny!! Or at least smaller!!
Deeply envied less tall friends who could easily wear heels without looking like a giant!! (And some were better in basketball too! /shucks!/)
I was always one of the taller kids in class.. I like it if my man is taller, but girls who are not so tall have MUUCH more choice this way!!!
I like it if people are taller than me too, cuase then I don't have to hunch or feel embarassed for being so tall, lol.. But I really like and admire 'petite'/tiny girls, they usually have such gracefulness about them!!
Maybe those names were a (weird) way of giving affection? Sometimes people just pick on something-? (Or if they're angry/jealous and they just blurt out something? Especially if they see that it 'gets' you..)
I was called four eyes at times and really hated it (for the glasses) and then I hated some of my body shape as a teen etc etc.
I would sooner think guys might have a tallness problem (eg being short could contribute to SA), as many guys find tiny girls extremely attractive.. And many girls might like a taller guy.. But I've seen some very sociable shorter guys too..
So tallness/shortness is just one of the things that you can pick your head into and obsess about it (or not) and it's the obsessing that contributes to SA, not the actual nature of things.. As Static wrote..
Maybe they are looking at you cause you are pretty!!