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...I don't feel good about doing this, because I don't feel like I should dump myself onto people I don't know, even on the internet. But I have not the will to stop the urge because I have literally NOWHERE and NO ONE else to turn to...
I'm beyond rock bottom and yet I'm not suicidal. I never could be for two reasons: I fear death, and I have a three year old daughter.
For that matter, I'm 22 and have had three jobs, all last year, each lasting one month only. I couldn't even keep my McDonald's job. I've never had a license and I've never even studied for getting one. I dropped out of highschool at 16 after failing 9th grade once due to giving up and only recently got my GED. I live with my ex who is my daughter's father and who is so angry at me sometimes that he acts it out. He doesn't want me here and it makes his life hell. I hurt him a lot and he hurt me a lot when we were together. I cheated on him and hate myself for that complicated, messed up situation. I hate myself in general, actually. I fully deserve and take my hatred for my mistake.
I haven't had a single true friend in real life since 5th grade.
I don't even have any acquaintances here.
My family is in Florida, are all old, have always been dysfunctional, and will never be of any help. I'm here, alone, no job, no license, no money, no future, no schooling, and this house belongs to his (my ex's) mom, who is at HER wits end and saying she will lose this house eventually now (like by christmas).
I'm constantly told my parenting is wrong. I feel like every little thing I do is wrong. I'm wrong. My life is wrong. Everything's completely and utterly WRONG. I was just told this morning (by my ex) that two people left for coffee "because of me." That one said "This is why I hide in my room all day." followed by "Yeah, let's go." or whatever. Things like this keep happening on a daily basis. This happened while I was dressing my daughter.
My dad died when I was four months old. Got struck by lightning...
I can't bring myself to move. I feel like everyone here thinks I'm crazy and should just "get over it." It seems they feel like I should ignore emotions and feelings completely and just do stuff. It's impossible for me.
I can't work, I can't drive, I can't meet people, I live in OUTGOINGSOUTDOORSVILLE county where I relate to no one and everyone's a hippy and believes in pretty much the opposite as I do where I come from, I can't move because I have a daughter, I couldn't STAND to be away from her, I feel an impending change in everything and can't stop it, I can't think straight (as you can see my thoughts are out of order), I can't pick myself up, yet I can't and don't want to die....
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What is left? I am nothing. I am a zombie. I need a shoulder. I need help. I have no one and nothing. I am decaying alive.
For discussion, what do you do when you're in the worst of worst places?
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Thanks for listening. If you have. Hope you're having a better day/life overall than me. :\ <3
I'm beyond rock bottom and yet I'm not suicidal. I never could be for two reasons: I fear death, and I have a three year old daughter.
For that matter, I'm 22 and have had three jobs, all last year, each lasting one month only. I couldn't even keep my McDonald's job. I've never had a license and I've never even studied for getting one. I dropped out of highschool at 16 after failing 9th grade once due to giving up and only recently got my GED. I live with my ex who is my daughter's father and who is so angry at me sometimes that he acts it out. He doesn't want me here and it makes his life hell. I hurt him a lot and he hurt me a lot when we were together. I cheated on him and hate myself for that complicated, messed up situation. I hate myself in general, actually. I fully deserve and take my hatred for my mistake.
I haven't had a single true friend in real life since 5th grade.
I don't even have any acquaintances here.
My family is in Florida, are all old, have always been dysfunctional, and will never be of any help. I'm here, alone, no job, no license, no money, no future, no schooling, and this house belongs to his (my ex's) mom, who is at HER wits end and saying she will lose this house eventually now (like by christmas).
I'm constantly told my parenting is wrong. I feel like every little thing I do is wrong. I'm wrong. My life is wrong. Everything's completely and utterly WRONG. I was just told this morning (by my ex) that two people left for coffee "because of me." That one said "This is why I hide in my room all day." followed by "Yeah, let's go." or whatever. Things like this keep happening on a daily basis. This happened while I was dressing my daughter.
My dad died when I was four months old. Got struck by lightning...
I can't bring myself to move. I feel like everyone here thinks I'm crazy and should just "get over it." It seems they feel like I should ignore emotions and feelings completely and just do stuff. It's impossible for me.
I can't work, I can't drive, I can't meet people, I live in OUTGOINGSOUTDOORSVILLE county where I relate to no one and everyone's a hippy and believes in pretty much the opposite as I do where I come from, I can't move because I have a daughter, I couldn't STAND to be away from her, I feel an impending change in everything and can't stop it, I can't think straight (as you can see my thoughts are out of order), I can't pick myself up, yet I can't and don't want to die....
...
What is left? I am nothing. I am a zombie. I need a shoulder. I need help. I have no one and nothing. I am decaying alive.
For discussion, what do you do when you're in the worst of worst places?
...
Thanks for listening. If you have. Hope you're having a better day/life overall than me. :\ <3