ScaredToBreathe
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Are or were you socially anxious when interacting with your mom or dad or immediate family? If so, what made you so anxious? Is there a reason or possible factors for feeling SA around people you live with and grew up with? Did it ever improve? What about your family's social lifestyle? Were they quiet people? Were they very outgoing? Did they have friends over often or hold parties? Did they keep to themselves or not have many contacts? Please tell me your thoughts.
I can talk fine with my mom now but when I was younger I remember getting frustrated or throwing temper tantrums because I was too anxious to ask/tell her something and fearful of a negative response. It was irrational, as my mom is a pretty nice person, not someone who would always say "no" or be rejecting.
My dad I was always anxious around and do not know what to say to him and still can't hold a conversation with him. It's even worse because he doesn't fully understand/empathize with my SA and thinks I don't like talking to him because of him, not me. When I was little my mom took care of me mostly, my dad would be at work or out with friends and at home he would be the main discipliner and would yell a lot if I got in trouble, which made me very fearful and I still get very scared when people yell. I think I withdrew and refrained from saying anything around him to prevent being yelled at.
I can talk fine with my mom now but when I was younger I remember getting frustrated or throwing temper tantrums because I was too anxious to ask/tell her something and fearful of a negative response. It was irrational, as my mom is a pretty nice person, not someone who would always say "no" or be rejecting.
My dad I was always anxious around and do not know what to say to him and still can't hold a conversation with him. It's even worse because he doesn't fully understand/empathize with my SA and thinks I don't like talking to him because of him, not me. When I was little my mom took care of me mostly, my dad would be at work or out with friends and at home he would be the main discipliner and would yell a lot if I got in trouble, which made me very fearful and I still get very scared when people yell. I think I withdrew and refrained from saying anything around him to prevent being yelled at.