Are you an idiot

[kattness]

I would say im 85% gay.....not ashamed of myself, its just the thought of telling people which makes me all blah.

i also dont think its linked with s/a whats so ever.

and wow i wasnt expecting some homophobic comments in here.

 

[GetReal]

Hi, I gay and have social phobia/agoraphobia and get DP symptons. If you want to drop me an Email/PM please do.

 

[lucidity]

I am gay guy and I have SA. I don't know if it's the homosexuality the caused my SA or vice versa, since they both emerged around the same time. My therapist thinks that me being gay makes me feel ashamed and uncomfortable which in turn causes my SA. But who the hell knows.... :!: :?:

 

[sensitive]

I am certainly straight , thanks God.

Thank God? Why? Homophobic?

Well really the idea of being gay is normally going to be revolting to you if you're straight, that's natural and it's just the way it is. It probably works the other way round too I expect..

I respect gay people, but I'm extremely glad I'm not gay. Does that make me homophobic? I'm definitely not scared of gay people, but yes the idea of men having sex with each other disgusts me, it's natural.

Labels suck :roll:

That's exactly my idea too. It's absolutely normal for us (straight people) to feel sick to think even about having sex with same sex :x .

 

[GetReal]

That's exactly my idea too. It's absolutely normal for us (straight people) to feel sick to think even about having sex with same sex :x .

Why bother posting in this 'are you gay/bisexual thread' if you feel so repulsed and think your so normal. Kind of weird ?

Its so sad that even in a supportive forum like socialphobiaworld homophobic bigots are allowed to post.

 

[Scottish_Player]

Why is it when someone says they dont agree with gays that they are automaticaly tagged a gay bashers or similar?

Its stange that dont you think, as long as you are supporting gays you can say your bit but if you dont agree with it then sit down in the corner and shut up :roll:

My opinion is prob clear and i dont agree with either man or woman having sex wiith the same sex, but as its been said on here before what goes on between closed doors between 2 CONCENTING adults is entirely up to them.

I think this thread should prob be locked to save any arguments and i mean no offence to anyone from what i have written, its just my opinion :wink:

 

[Aerandir]

I think that people can be confused in determining if they are gay/bisexual or they can be confused in determining if they are heterosexual... You may think you are gay and realise that you like girls or you can be hetero and realise that you like both.. and so on.. I think...

 

[Link80]

Iam a lesbian, but it has nothing to do with my illness

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

I'm attracted to both genders, but sometimes I think I'm asexual...I might as well be asexual/might as well say I'm asexual, anyway. since I'll always be alone. :?

 

[Zipper]

MMMMMmmmmm... Boobies.

 

[FruitLooPs]

the clitoris is an amaxing piece of equipment..everyone should take the time to learn to use it

*looks around for his clitoris, oh what the ... short changed! :wink: *

Hmm not gay, dont have a problem with it - although I can see how anxiety around it would possibly be a trigger for SA or other anxiety disorders.

Obviously sexuality isn't half as clear cut as its made out to be, I liken it to a sliding scale more - some are firmly at one end, others somewhere in between. Where ever you are, its all good.

Oh and, I read that nancy friday book when i was like 10, certainly opened my eyes 8O maybe thats why I like erotic stories more than most other forms of material, the detail and descriptions can paint a far more vivid picture than some cheesy porn flick. Not that they dont have their uses


P.S.

Merry Christmas everyone@!! its 1.50am on the 25th here - I've just got home from a concert (yes indeed!) and it was amazing.

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

you know...it could just be that..you havent ..mmm your sexuality just hasnt..woken up yet....i'd been having sex for ten years before i even discovered the clitoral orgasm....mmmm...being on your own...isnt the death of great orgasms...i reccomend reading erotic literature...and or writing it...plus some books that helped me get to know myself better sexually are 'my secret garden' by nancy friday and 'the mirror within' by anne dickson. orgasms are such a blessing..everyone should have them! it pays to..discover your sexuality..i dont just mean..am i gay straight bi or a-..i mean...just..get to know what you like and what works for you....hours of fun ... x

actually I can give myself an orgasm fine have been able to for quite awhile...though it isn't something i do very often. just occasionally. with what I said about being asexual...I just meant with other people, really...I'm still a virgin. people don't even usually try to do anything with me...not that i'm complaining. that's a good thing, since nobody has ever cared anything about me anyway.

 

[Remus]

I'm straight and the thought of me kissing a guy is like yuk to me

and I guess a 100% gay guy would think the same about kissing a woman

Its all about desires afterall

I think homosexeuality is as normal and natural as heterosexuality though

anybody know any convincing ladyboys? :wink:

 

[Diluted_Acid]

My opinion is prob clear and i dont agree with either man or woman having sex wiith the same sex, but as its been said on here before what goes on between closed doors between 2 CONCENTING adults is entirely up to them.

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What so its ok for a straight couple to pash each other in public, but wrong for gay and lesbiamn to pash publicly?

 

[Manicsfan]

I am definately bisexual, although sometimes I think I lean more towards being gay. I like both guys and girls, I get crushes on both guys and girls but I think if I had a choice between a guy who had a great personality and was attractive and a girl who had an equally great personality and attractivness I would probably pick the girl.

 

[Ayla]

k, well, here's my little story:

about a month ago i went to see brokeback mountain. then i had a prolonged panick attack (about 2 1/2 days). then i realized that I'm a lesbian. or bi....but definitely want to be with girls. then i broke up with my boyfriend.

isn't that terrible??? brokeback mountain is part of my coming out story. It isn't even that great a movie

but I really do think that this whole thing has had an impact on my sp. its like... not fitting in, not feeling my identity, and all that. I think i identify, group wise, with lesbians.

 

[limelight]

I'm gay.

I really don't think being gay had any effect on the severity of my SA. That was caused by constant put downs in elementary school + anxiety runs in my family.

I haven't had a boyfriend yet or even kissed a guy. SA is terribly limiting

 

[Ernie]

I'm definitively bisexual. Dosn't have anything to do with the phobia though since I'm quite feminin. Actually I'm not sure I'm even a man :roll:

 

[Falling]

so for those who are homophobics or say "seeing 2 men kissing disgust me" let me tell you something dudes...

you're free to discriminate other people... but then dont upset yourself if you get discriminated.

you're free to disgust your self by other human beings.... go ahead, but then dont upset yourself if someone is disgusted by you. and not only in those things... but in everything.

or else if you hear people telling you "thank god im not quite guy like you" dont upset yourself... you have to remember there was a time when you said "thank god im not gay"

i'm GAY....and is the main reason why i dont open my self to people, i look really fake cuz i dont have the balls to just be myself.... im quite effeminated, i like girlish things, i talk in a very effeminated way, and thats why i suffer from inferiority complex sometimes when i see straight guys.

someday i'll be PROUD of who i am... and therefore my shyness will vanish when i fix this thing. :wink:

 

[ohyes06]

I'm definitely bisexual also...nobody knows it yet, they'll know soon in the future but being in HS...I know it's not good, but I don't want to go through the crap of being known as "bi" or "gay" in school...since kids like to be homophobic.

I can believe it.