seafolly
Well-known member
First post...hi...!
For the sake of efficiency I'm going to condense my background as much as possible. At 16 I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety. I started therapy and medication immediately and within a few months was back at school. Though I was never 100% normal I did well enough to enjoy my last couple of years of high school. When I went to university I flourished for the most part, despite some dips along the road. However, in 2007, I started to faint from anxiety. Slowly I pulled away from situations that would leave me "unprotected" in a public situation and soon was unable to leave my apartment without a housemate. I was pulled from university for a semester to supposedly get better. I didn't. A transfer happened to keep me closer to home and I'm currently at rock bottom at age 25. While friends are getting married and earning PhD's I'm still struggling with my undergrad as I rarely show up for class. I can't. Agoraphobia rules my life.
My dilemma: In 12 days I'm scheduled to be on a plane from Ontario to Virginia. Not too far. But you're looking at a girl who celebrates if she takes a walk around the block alone. I flew to Cuba a few months ago but was with someone the entire time. And I really depended on him. Those security/customs booths that separate you was only a minute or two long but it was excruciating. Anyway, I'm making this trip alone. And I already am fighting panic attacks just thinking about it. The security guards, the waiting lounge, the lineups...I'm scared to faint. It's happened many times before. So I suppose my question to any of you with agoraphobia is, have you been tossed into a situation like this before? From being a total hermit to trying to do something completely normal and knowing you're completely on your own? I need a plan of action other than reading books (I won't focus) or listening to music (the plane will be too loud to hear). Or I just need to hear other experiences. I'm just plain terrified. And years of therapy seem to amount to nothing as I can barely cope with the anxiety NOW. What will it be like when I'm faced with it? :/
For the sake of efficiency I'm going to condense my background as much as possible. At 16 I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety. I started therapy and medication immediately and within a few months was back at school. Though I was never 100% normal I did well enough to enjoy my last couple of years of high school. When I went to university I flourished for the most part, despite some dips along the road. However, in 2007, I started to faint from anxiety. Slowly I pulled away from situations that would leave me "unprotected" in a public situation and soon was unable to leave my apartment without a housemate. I was pulled from university for a semester to supposedly get better. I didn't. A transfer happened to keep me closer to home and I'm currently at rock bottom at age 25. While friends are getting married and earning PhD's I'm still struggling with my undergrad as I rarely show up for class. I can't. Agoraphobia rules my life.
My dilemma: In 12 days I'm scheduled to be on a plane from Ontario to Virginia. Not too far. But you're looking at a girl who celebrates if she takes a walk around the block alone. I flew to Cuba a few months ago but was with someone the entire time. And I really depended on him. Those security/customs booths that separate you was only a minute or two long but it was excruciating. Anyway, I'm making this trip alone. And I already am fighting panic attacks just thinking about it. The security guards, the waiting lounge, the lineups...I'm scared to faint. It's happened many times before. So I suppose my question to any of you with agoraphobia is, have you been tossed into a situation like this before? From being a total hermit to trying to do something completely normal and knowing you're completely on your own? I need a plan of action other than reading books (I won't focus) or listening to music (the plane will be too loud to hear). Or I just need to hear other experiences. I'm just plain terrified. And years of therapy seem to amount to nothing as I can barely cope with the anxiety NOW. What will it be like when I'm faced with it? :/