no1
Banned
I am not even all that passive. I just don't agree with the simply "sexually motivated intent" to interact with a woman simply because you think she looks hot, etc.
But then again I'm not even that spontaneous. But then again.. if one has been alone all his life, how can you be? if all your life all you've had is loneliness, and you've never had decent social status,have no clue of society, or social skills, etc. and there are hardly any places to learn these things because "you were supposed to learn them NATURALLY, otherwise you are a mentally disabled person, or amoral freak/demon/stupid etc." At least in my area. My history just sucks. Usually people are more comfortable being spontaneous because, they've had social status, they have some friends around, here and there. They know what works and what doesn't. They know shit. It's common sense to them. Still though, that doesn't make an excuse for predatory behavior. Or at least, the way I see it, looks predatory, because it simply isn't "natural" for me. It's not "right" for me. When I would do it, it's predatory.
How can any man, in their right mind, feel comfortable hitting on a girl and interacting with one, solely because he thinks she 'looks hot' and "SEXY?" Don't you think others would pick up on this too? Would you do that in front of your grandmother, or around kids? Around a bunch of lonely women who are obviously "not as hot/sexy" as this one? Wouldn't you feel like you are being somewhat perverted? Wouldn't you prefer more normal interaction, and then wait a little to make your move instead of just bardging in there with an implied proposition, in a place/situation that is NOT appropriate (ie away from the bar/club scene, or "meat market" scene)?
Ever since the beginning of the bar/club scene, the way of meeting the opposite sex I think, has changed for a vast majority of people. It first of all has to do with treating a bar/club as solely a place to "pick up women" or "find a potential mate or sex partner". To carry that same style off into the public arena is absurd because that only works in clubs (unless the woman is really that dense and doesn't see througfh it either), and even then if it works in clubs, it's because people ARE that dense, and think that it's a place where anything flies, you can be vile etc, and became a place you wouldn't take your son or daughter to, or your grandmother, or anyone else who wouldn't be appropriate because it's "too wild".
But then again I'm not even that spontaneous. But then again.. if one has been alone all his life, how can you be? if all your life all you've had is loneliness, and you've never had decent social status,have no clue of society, or social skills, etc. and there are hardly any places to learn these things because "you were supposed to learn them NATURALLY, otherwise you are a mentally disabled person, or amoral freak/demon/stupid etc." At least in my area. My history just sucks. Usually people are more comfortable being spontaneous because, they've had social status, they have some friends around, here and there. They know what works and what doesn't. They know shit. It's common sense to them. Still though, that doesn't make an excuse for predatory behavior. Or at least, the way I see it, looks predatory, because it simply isn't "natural" for me. It's not "right" for me. When I would do it, it's predatory.
How can any man, in their right mind, feel comfortable hitting on a girl and interacting with one, solely because he thinks she 'looks hot' and "SEXY?" Don't you think others would pick up on this too? Would you do that in front of your grandmother, or around kids? Around a bunch of lonely women who are obviously "not as hot/sexy" as this one? Wouldn't you feel like you are being somewhat perverted? Wouldn't you prefer more normal interaction, and then wait a little to make your move instead of just bardging in there with an implied proposition, in a place/situation that is NOT appropriate (ie away from the bar/club scene, or "meat market" scene)?
Ever since the beginning of the bar/club scene, the way of meeting the opposite sex I think, has changed for a vast majority of people. It first of all has to do with treating a bar/club as solely a place to "pick up women" or "find a potential mate or sex partner". To carry that same style off into the public arena is absurd because that only works in clubs (unless the woman is really that dense and doesn't see througfh it either), and even then if it works in clubs, it's because people ARE that dense, and think that it's a place where anything flies, you can be vile etc, and became a place you wouldn't take your son or daughter to, or your grandmother, or anyone else who wouldn't be appropriate because it's "too wild".
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