I have shown people in my family my palms before, like how your boyfriend did. It's like, "Just
look at this!" to show them how bad it can get. I don't think I'd ever do that with someone I didn't know well, though.
I think he must be naturally not self-conscious. It reminds me of my husband. He just doesn't embarrass easily. He's gone through things that would make a lot of people feel awkward about themselves, but he just shrugs it off. It's one of the things I really love about him.
Also, my husband used to be in a band with a guy who apparently had really bad HH. Husband told be that this guy seemed to not be too aware of his problem though. like he didn't even know he had it. So maybe there are some HH sufferers who really just don't care. Good for them! :
![Stick out tongue :p :p](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
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I know when you find something that helps your HH, you want to share it with other HH'ers. But if you have shared your experiences with him, it's now his decision to make. You can be there for him either way.