a message to all u guys in a relationship....

cola junky

Active member
well...it's been a long time since i've posted a message here....
i have a question that really bothers me...

all u guy in a relationship...if there r any here....
how do u deal with it,with the anxiety and all...

i mean....it's so hard for me to start a conversation yet alone to be expected to be the initiative part in a relationship...how do u do it? how do u deal with it? how did u "break the ice"?
do u have awkward silences?

any advices for me?
 

MikeyC

Well-known member
Unfortunately I have no advice, because I was in a two-month relationship that ended because I couldn't become intimate. ::(: I had a lot of issues that my ex couldn't get through.

Good luck.
 

Sora

Well-known member
It just happens!

Is how it has always happened for me and when it doesn't happen I just tell myself, it clearly wasn't meant to and she clearly wasn't compatible with me because anyone compatible will just happen.

Not really advice, but it's been my life so I am not going to fight what works for me lol.

You need to just build relationships and see if it becomes more than a normal friendship, don't just go looking for only one thing or you will never find it.
 

Bustn Justin

Well-known member
Unfortunately I have no advice, because I was in a two-month relationship that ended because I couldn't become intimate. ::(: I had a lot of issues that my ex couldn't get through.

Good luck.

If she cannot be more understanding then she isn't worth it.
 

Amitush123

Well-known member
Not currently in relationship, but at the first few weeks/months of the relationhips, you will like if you will make a mistake, she will break up...it'll take some time until you'll gain the confidence that it isn't so
 
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