23 yr old female - never been in a relationship

[LonelyLoser]

haha what happend to my thread?

i think i suffer from BDD too so i have ultra low self esteem when it comes to my looks.

i suffer from SA but still go pubs/clubs every so often, so if a guy could have made his move he would have by now

saying that maybe im just picky, ive been asked out a couple of times, and rejected them because they seemed like losers

is it wrong for someone who has SA to not want a loser BF - ie like me! maybe thats a bit judgemental

time is ticking for me and 23 is old.

Who the fuck are you calling losers? the fact that you go out to clubs means your just a fake sufferer.

Im fucking pissed of of liers and pretenders who come on this forum and just fucking lie all the fucking time about their problems. Fucking hell you think your fucking life is hard, no its not u just have to stop acting like your better than everybody else thats all you have to do fucking hell its not that fucking hard. Try that and your problems are fixed and you dont have to come here again and offend real sufferers, REAL SUFFERERS LIKE ME!!!

 

[blackhole]

touchy..i called myself a loser too, read it...

and a loser is a guy that isnt quite confident and with it, charming funny etc...or someone thats not on my vibe which seems like most guys


23 feels old when your friends are getting married n having babies!

 

[LonelyLoser]

First of all you lied lied about your posts you cant just be stuck in your room and become a party animal like you boast to be. If so then what are you doing here if your so OUT THERE LIVING LIFE PERSON???

Secondly I'm shy, I'm overweight, I have social phobia,Im not funny, im not confident agoraphobia, naive, stupid etc etc so many things wrong with me. So im a fucking loser now, thanks.

yah superficial bitch

 

[LonelyLoser]

what have you got to say about that now??? oh come on the truth is you think were all losers now right?? many of us here arent as confindent, or as charming and funny as you. Where out of your league, why dont you find a leagues of your own???

 

[coriander2008]

First of all you lied lied about your posts you cant just be stuck in your room and become a party animal like you boast to be. If so then what are you doing here if your so OUT THERE LIVING LIFE PERSON???

Secondly I'm shy, I'm overweight, I have social phobia,Im not funny, im not confident agoraphobia, naive, stupid etc etc so many things wrong with me. So im a fucking loser now, thanks.

yah superficial bitch

You idiot, your username is LonelyLoser for god's sake. You're calling yourself a loser! :roll:

She never called any of you a loser specifically.

 

[LonelyLoser]

So what have you got to fucking say now??? Dont go quite and harden the fuck up!!!! who do you think are the losers??? You think were losers now considering some of us arent so fucking outgoing and charming. And some have never even had a single date let alone a gf.

 

[LonelyLoser]

touchy..i called myself a loser too, read it...

and a loser is a guy that isnt quite confident and with it, charming funny etc...or someone thats not on my vibe which seems like most guys


23 feels old when your friends are getting married n having babies!

Oh bullshit Ill repeat what she says:

and a loser is a guy that isnt quite confident and with it, charming funny etc...or someone thats not on my vibe which seems like most guys

So what does she thinks of the shy people here, or the agoraphobics??? or the ppl who have low self esteem. I mean enough said, she already said that shy guys, with zero esteem are losers.
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[Remus]

ewww fook! Kevin Bacon

*voms*

 

[LonelyLoser]

And blackhole you still havent answered my question. Why the fuck are you calling us losers? Did you register just to say that?

 

[LonelyLoser]

And blackhole you still havent fucking answered my question. Why the fuck are you calling us losers? Did you register just to say that?

 

[coriander2008]

ewww fook! Kevin Bacon

*voms*

he's a delicious man

He looks rather scary :lol:

 

[Lotrsfan]

makes me sad that i had to be picked on. other females on this forum seem capable of getting a boyfriend. i'm so awkward around guys that this is the effect...

anyone else in the same position ? i have to lie to peers to cover this fact up...makes me feel even worse...

Hey, i'm 22 and i've never had a boyfriend, dates or even just kissed a guy. I would like a boyfriend though and i do have someone who likes me and wants to go out on a date but i'm too nervous to go out with him and i am worried about ackward silences

 

[blackhole]

lonelyloser, youre getting a bit out of hand, no need to get so angry and threaten me with personal messages

i never claimed to be stuck in my room, but i have been in the past - i'd spend whole summers just stuck in my room doing nothing but being on the net, but im improving.

i also never claimed to be a party whore. i go every so often to pubs n clubs that is what i said, no whoring of parties involved.

i'm also extremely shy myself and not confident at all .... why do u think ive not had a boyfriend? i didnt call u a loser, but you did yourself.

and i suffer from SA so dont accuse me of otherwise. there are varying levels...and i function in the everyday world but with great difficulty trust me.
please dont threaten me again, i really did not expect that on this forum

 

[blackhole]

makes me sad that i had to be picked on. other females on this forum seem capable of getting a boyfriend. i'm so awkward around guys that this is the effect...

anyone else in the same position ? i have to lie to peers to cover this fact up...makes me feel even worse...

Hey, i'm 22 and i've never had a boyfriend, dates or even just kissed a guy. I would like a boyfriend though and i do have someone who likes me and wants to go out on a date but i'm too nervous to go out with him and i am worried about ackward silences

hey! its good to know someones in a similar position

i would personally say go for it (if you like him back). youre lucky to have that, really. and if he doesnt like u because of awkward silences, then what have u lost? absolutey nothing....cease the day my friend

 

[Ubersonic]

So we can conclude that SP affects both men and women greatly when it comes to dating. However, SP women will still have more opportunities than SP men, so they shouldn't feel as bad.

 

[Aelos]

I´ve got almost the same story in here

I´m 20y old guy, almost 21 right now and my 1st time kissing someone was like one month ago, then we make sex too. I am homossexual...well i used to have some problemns to deal wth relationship, afraid with parens...used to want to stay with somebody pretty special...and so one
I guess you gotta have your own time, don´t mind what people thinks about you- if u are a virgen or not, this kind of stuff. Just do what u want to do, with the person that you want..at the time in want it.
Girl... kissing nd making sex are so..commun lol. I mean i used to think of it like something incredible..but i´ts so normal, you gonna figure that out one day

take care =D

 

[coriander2008]

So we can conclude that SP affects both men and women greatly when it comes to dating. However, SP women will still have more opportunities than SP men, so they shouldn't feel as bad.

What do you mean by "more oppertunities" exactly?

 

[Hoth]

And blackhole you still havent fucking answered my question. Why the fuck are you calling us losers? Did you register just to say that?

I nominate you for hilariously ironic rants of the month, for getting so upset about the word "loser" and for accusing someone of being rude while you put on a clinic for how to earn a restraining order. (And before you call me fake, I've never gone on a date and never visited a club... stop pretending that excuses your being a jerk who explodes at innocent remarks, nobody cares if your SA is worse or not and that's not a good measure of it anyhow.)

However, SP women will still have more opportunities than SP men, so they shouldn't feel as bad.

Why shouldn't they feel as bad? Heck, they should feel a lot worse for having failed at more opportunities. I think life's easier because I know I don't have the slightest chance, so I don't have to worry about it. It's the things I know I could do but fail at that really hurt.

 

[Ubersonic]

Why shouldn't they feel as bad? Heck, they should feel a lot worse for having failed at more opportunities.

SP Girl: I never had a bf and I never will...
Some guy: Hey, want to hang out?
SP Girl: No... (pfft, what a loser...)
2 weeks later....
SP Girl: I never had a bf and I never will...

Now compare that to...

SP Guy: I never had a gf and I never will...
Crickets: .......*churp*...........*churp*........
....*churp*.......*churp*........*churp*...........
2 weeks later....
SP Guy: I never had a gf and I never will...

:? *scratches head* :?

 

[Riiya]

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