I didn't say anyone's inferior. I'm SA as well, after all. And the few friends I have are introverts. And I still like them. But you're saying extroverts are inferior and shallow. So fuck off. And no, I'm not trolling, but I did get seriously pissed off when I saw how shallow you people assume some people are shallow just because you don't have the capacity to understand them. If you still don't get my point, have a look at the Heartless Bitches' International look at "nice guys". And you'll see what I mean.
Maybe instread of having this retarded gay inferiority complex and "working on improving yourselves", you should just accept who you are. I don't actually understand how anyone can have low self-esteem and dislike themselves (maybe I'm shallow for not understanding those people). How can you not like who you are? How can there even be a major component of your personality, that is unchangeable, that you don't like? I mean, unless you steal or lie or cheat or are an asshole. What is it even you people dislike about yourselves. If it's just that you're worried other people might dislike you, fine. But at the end of the day no one knows you better than you, so how can there be something that you know you are that people might dislike. People don't hate each other for personality, last time I checked (except for minor annoying habits, or stuborness or whatever), but for their personal quarrels and fights and bitchiness and so on. And if you are, for example, one an asshole by personality, just start being nicer to people! That doesn't take a long journey of self-improvement! Not that any of you are, seeing as most of you are shy wussies, frankly.
Oh, and with people who don't like you and don't wanna be your friends simply because you're not their type (and if you're afraid of social rejection because of that), then what are the odds you're gonna like them?
Wih you assholes saying I said SA people are inferior, get yourselves a fucking dictionary 'cause you sound like retards. There's a difference between SA people and introverts. And I didn't even say introverts are inferior. I said wussies who hate people out of pure jealousy and accuse them of superficiality and shallowness to cover up their own personal self-esteem problems are. Notice how "bullies" fit this descritpion just as well as those who said they hate outgoing people, only they have the balls to harrass people. But they should be just as hated as bullies are, because the only difference is they aren't chickens. Wussies would do the same if they had the balls.
Marie_knowsbest, I agree with everything you said except that about getting dumped. SA people are usually a lot more sensitive so they suffer more even if it's less personal. I know, that if you don't do anything with people and don't have lots of friends like non-SA sufferers, and they reject you right away, it's a lot worse because it discourages you from even trying anything.
At Darkened, know that shy extroverts can have it just as bad. Also, I thought everyone here is trying to get rid of social phobia, and fuelling the frustrations society continuously hammers into you to your fellow sufferers with loser talk like this only slows the process. And I don't get it. Maybe you should ask yourselves why you hate them, since you're all well aware hating them is stupid and makes you look bad. Imagine if they said they hate shy people. I don't even wanna imagine the self-pitying lashback drivel bullshit that would commence...
