I agree with everything Jura said in his first post. I belive Jura is a social phobic, and it seems like he has his mind set right to overcome this. I didnt like the way he wrote it though, Iam sure he offended some people here but he apologised now lol.
I have been that oversensitiv guy like u all are here too but since i started workin on gettin better my attitude has changed and i dont hate the world anymore, I dont hate successfull happy people, I changed so much since last year.I was as worse as it gets, didnt leave the house for a year. I was doin CBT which i made some progresss but not much. It gave me a new way to look at things thou. Now I found the real thing.Iam doin EFT for a month already and made so much progress.
btw my name is Jure haha,
another thing, people who judge themselves, judge others too and with that comes the fear of being judged by others. People who dont judge others, dont judge themselves - it makes all sence.Same with people who hate themselves, they hate other people, you have to sort this out in yourself. I was a very judgemental person myself, not by heart but what i learned i think from being around the wrong people. I sorted this out in myself whenever i saw someone on the street i would automatically judge negatively i would stop this thought, same with if i thought other people are judging me. Its always 2 ways if u know what i mean. I could never stop this judging thing if i would only try to stop believing other people are judging me, i also had to stop doing it. As i said i was never a judging person before i got this SA. Its just some junk i learned from other people. So yea in a way people with social anxiety are bad people too, i dont wanna say everyone is the same, but most are. its understandable because we are not happy in ourselves. Hope I didnt sound to confusing. Its late here 2am