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    I think I am allergic to dating...

    Ok so I had a thread a few weeks back where I was going to go on a coffee date with a girl but ended up cancelling the night before as my anxiety was getting unbearable.. I felt really bad after that because surprise surprise I almost instantly felt better. I did contact her again later but...
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    Girl agreed to a date but I am crippled with anxiety...

    Hi all, Well the title says it all.. this Saturday I managed to get a date with a girl through online dating, this is going to be the first time we are going to meet. The only problem is, my anxiety is so intense I don't know if I will make it to Saturday without melting down into another cycle...
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    Time for a change..

    Hi all, I consider myself a functioning anxiety sufferer in that I can go out but struggle doing things alone. I called off dating a girl recently I met online, I have a whole thread about it.. Anyway that isn't what this is about.. The point is in the aftermath I have felt a strong push of...
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    Bad decision...

    I managed to get talking to a girl online recently, we caught up for a coffee which ended up lasting a few hours, we have caught up a couple of times after and we were getting closer slowly, I even somehow managed to kiss her goodnight the last time we met.. But yesterday I called her to call...
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    do you allow yourself to feel good?

    I was having a councelling session with my academic councillor the other day and we were discussing motivation and the 'good feelings' of achievement. Basically I told him because I undervalued a lot of my effort and was always short changing myself I lacked that feeling that motivates one to...
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    How are you with distributing responsibility?

    I am thinking more in a workplace setting. I work in Admin, I have a pretty general position so nobody really works 'under' me as such and I have pretty much all of my own work. But today I had to delegate some work to the new girl that started a couple of months ago. Delegating work, and...
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    So, how about that stuff..

    Hi everyone, I am a 24 year old dude. I am an eternal student, I have been painfully dragging myself through my accounting degree at Uni for the past few years which I should have finished by now. I work in admin, my company is rather chaotic and unorganised.. I consider my survival there a...
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